Would you rather work with someone who is always diplomatic or someone who always keeps it real?

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Keep it real please, but not what the current environment version of it. Don't be racist or sexist and call it being real.

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Fair enough. For the record, I don’t consider either of those examples as “keeping it real.” I think those are examples of ‘keeping it bigoted.’

I mean someone who is not afraid to speak up and out when it’s called for.

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Someone who has my back

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Ideally in the middle.

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That’s a difficult balancing act.

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Keeps it real. I always remember the Senior Manager who was never afraid of saying "yeah honestly I didn't think of that" instead of "let me circle back"/bs consulting lingo. Would go to war with him

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Either as long as long as the person isn’t a jerk.

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Someone who can do both and knows when to use them

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Real anytime! While confrontation is hard it also made me aware of my flaws and generally helped to work better with people both on a personal and professional level

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I work with someone who thinks he's diplomatic.

He just lies to everyone.

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Keep it real. That’s how I am with my team and ask that they do the same with me. Call me out when you don’t agree with something and I’ll do the same with you. It’s ok to admit when we’re wrong or don’t know something. Manage up as much as I manage down.

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my senior is a master at weaving narratives to suit her PoV lol does that count as a balancing act?

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