35/M/5’8”/NYC - where are the divorced and separated people at?

To those who divorced or called off the engagement, did you take the ring back? And if so, what did you do with it?

Any dads out here? Wife is 20 weeks pregnant with our first and want to connect and know from fellow dads on how are they coping. How are you helping your partner? Feel I am not doing enough. Except for getting ready with the finances.

Pregnant moms, feel free to provide suggestions on what your partner is doing which you really appreciate. I got the foot massage part covered. 😉

My mom has been sick for nearly a week now (fever, fatigue, nausea) but isn't able to get help or tested because she doesn't have respriatory symptoms...yet. Our numbers are definitely underreported.

How has having kids affected your career?

Any mothers that are supervisors/managers? Thinking about starting a family & realized I don't know how this is going to work if I want to lean in to both my career & my ovaries. Esp. breastfeeding.

Anyone stuck in an unhappy marriage? How do you deal with loneliness of this profession and complicated family life

How do I figure out spending with my SO? Initially I was paying for 90% of stuff (no actual bills, just going out). I talked to her and said we need to be more even. She was never proactive. She kind of got offended but we ended on a good note to split things. It went well for a couple weeks but now it's back to normal. She never takes out her card and only venmos me if I send her the request. She lets Venmos sit for weeks before paying them. I still let a lot of things slide.

I'm a US citizen living abroad I applied almost 11 months ago for my spouse. Married for years, kid. I wait and wait. It seems this will take 2 years, maybe more. I feel trapped. On one side the US system demands I work and domicile in US, the other side says families should be prioritized to stay together. My spouse has had enough of the process. I feel trapped abroad and locked in a dysfunctional system. We're just in limbo, it's depressing

Random Thought: I love my therapist and I just realized the things I talk to her about I wish I could talk to my parents about. Which made me realize, is that why people have such close relationships with their parents and why they call them all the time? Are people actually getting counseling from their parents?

Help!! My bestfriend is doing two months abroad and was trying to fly into turkey when they told her she couldn't because her passport expired within three months.

She went to the US Embassay in Athens knowing she had a month left of traveling, and gave her an emergency passport and punched holes in her exsisting one. Now no country will let her in with her emergency passport.

Can her mom get her a passport in the US and ship it to her? Is there anyway around this?

Thank you!!

Stupid Question- We have been thinking for IVF and trying to understand with this process, is there any difference in the health and life of the child as compared to a child born without IVF. I did ask this with our doctor and he said casually its all same. This is not to question any doctor but just to really understand what is going to be different with the kid. This is not very old technology and not much studies as well.

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Engaged and married folk - how did you know you were ready to propose? Any creative suggestions for the perfect quarantine proposal?

How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

Sometimes I feel like I am a drone that just works all the time and I have no friends.

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

Anybody else struggling with the fact that nearly all their friends are coupled up?
Not in an envious way. Just... Damn, this sh*t can leave you very alone.

What games, toys, or science kits would you recommend for a kid who’s showing an interest in the sciences?

How common are prenups in UK among middle-class? I'm thinking of asking my SO for one but I worry it would be viewed by anyone else as a one foot-out-the-door kinda situation. I'm just trying to be safe with little I have, seeing my friends' marriages.

Are there any ECDs/CDs not divorced or in a struggling relationship? Does career success = personal relationship failure?

What is average salary for Test Lead in Netherlands with 9 years of experience

Had a 3.2 in undergrad at UC Berkeley. Struggled with mental health 2 of my semesters, which reflects in my transcript pretty evidently. Is it worth writing an optional essay about? Just don’t want to be dinged and not seen as capable for grad level courses bc of that

How do you survive on a PhD stipend knowing it’ll be years before you can afford luxuries like a vacation or brand-name ice cream?

The only qualifier to becoming an industry legend should be whether or not you’ve worked with Sam Elliot. Nay, his mustache. Prove me wrong.

Want to improve my verbal and written communication skills. I hear reading more would help but I don’t read as much as I used to. So I’m wondering what books would help with that? Should I just read books that tickle my fancy like suspense and true crime novels? Help! Welcome to all book recommendations.

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

How to get sap server access for training purposes

Thank GOD I've found my people! It is SOOO hard to talk freely about things going on right now. Those of us at my school who support Trump, do so as if we're in "underground" communications with hushed tones while scoping out our environment.

I took a marketing class, and my professor said “nothing is free, if you are given something for free than YOU are the product “

Hello Friends I am looking for an opportunity in the field of Environmental Regulatory Compliance and Sustainability. Please help.

Can sumone provide a reference for a person having 12+ years legal experience in multiple fields including litigation/consulting/advisory etc, in & around Delhi NCR?

For those of you that have been to Costa Rica, how difficult is driving there? Planning on renting a car and worried about the roads/road signs since I know minimal Spanish.

I’ve 90 min for ELA & 6 kids. I need to teach phonics, curriculum (has 0 phonics), & goals & they need freq. breaks. Admin’s making me use said curric. Any ideas?? Small groups and rotate? TIA!

What are the best product based companies in Hyderabad for testing roles?

4YOE

What are the perks and benifits in pwc bglre ? Do they have holidays in year end like deloitte?

Anyone received first round application as an auditor virtual interview form Deloitte recently? Has anyone taken that before? I have clues about the written reposes. If anyone could tell me a little bit about it that would be great thank you!!!!!

Can anyone please tell me what additional perks (if any) Nielseniq provides? Also, with 2.9 YOE, they are offering 16LPA for 6-2 band. Is that standard or are they trying to lowball me?

Does anyone know of a good therapist they could recommend in the LA area? Saw someone post something similar to this in the bowl the other day so I thought it wouldn’t hurt to ask. They don’t have to be LGBTQ+, but it would help if they have some experience in that area.

Anyone got a new telegram link?

⚠️Calling all my Houston, Tx people⚠️

Let’s coordinate a happy hour meet and greet I’m a 25 F, for reference.

Let’s gooo

Anyone in this bowl located in the Hoosier state or surrounding states ?

Anyone near Philadelphia want to go to: mini golf, top golf, arcade, bowling, hiking, etc?

44/M/CNJ - drinks? Lunch? Dinner? Coffee? debauchery?

Anyone want to try and go to top golf this coming Friday night or Saturday night? Thinking the Mount Laurel location but Philadelphia works too.

any gays in here 😝

Any Boston networking events coming up soon?

What are my New Yorkers doing for Halloween? 👀

Any Columbus folks?

Hi, Anyone here from Strategy&? Looking for a referral for an Associate level position.

Anyone in late 20s-early 30s in nyc looking for friends?

Any Bay Area peeps want to meet up next week? Going to be in town for work, but looking for a distraction.

Are there some in this group that are here to chat as well? I’m a married M, but wouldn’t mind a friend that’s here to chat

Anyone from Sacramento area/ Cali

Hello all, good evening team, what are you planning this week?

Anyone in DFW want to do something this weekend? Just moved here and I have no friends here 😢