I'm a US citizen living abroad I applied almost 11 months ago for my spouse. Married for years, kid. I wait and wait. It seems this will take 2 years, maybe more. I feel trapped. On one side the US system demands I work and domicile in US, the other side says families should be prioritized to stay together. My spouse has had enough of the process. I feel trapped abroad and locked in a dysfunctional system. We're just in limbo, it's depressing

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Write your Senator or House Representative! I was sitting in the same position in 2019. We had waited 6+ months and nothing was happening. I was at my wits end. I took a chance and reached out to my US Representative pleading our case, and magically our application was approved 2 weeks later!

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Are you being helped by an immigration lawyer? Consider getting one.

Also write to your senator.

Which office did you apply for?

Through*

Thanks! I'm likely going to go down that road with the congressman if this goes past late November. I see the processing times are bad, and they got worse since we applied, but wow. It's next level slow.

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