Advice on how to handle this situation. I hired someone who I have helped alot to grow, teaching, coaching, mentoring. I thought she respected me and always approached me for questions but today she was part of a training I was presenting, and she was not muted, and everyone heard her say "oh, now, she wants us to turnon our cameras im not doing that" once she said that everyone followed her and I lost participation frm othe attendees. I feel disrespected. It changes how I viewed her.

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