I lashed out emotionally at work recently as of result of a lot pent up frustration. In short I accused those around me of personally attacking me. And I am worried I will loose my job as of result.

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Be honest with those you lashed out at and apologize

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Let me guess, your name is Karen?

Karens never admit they were wrong

Just apologize and communicate to your team that your emotionally overwhelmed with everything going on. They’ll understand!

Doesn’t hurt to apologize with some sweets or Starbucks gc, etc...

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