Any expats here face pushback from your family for moving to a different country? They always try to shame me for moving so far away around the holidays...

I broke up with my EX mainly because the relationship with my child and her was not the best, it sucks but I have to look out for my child, So far I am able to do the things I can do now. It is not the I am not Hoeing around but the simply fact that I can hang out with friends and go watch my son play baseball is a great feeling now. I feel at peace now, in somewhat of pain because of the breakup but I am at peace now.

Confession: The only in-law that I had a great relationship with passed away unexpectedly. The two remaining in-laws were on thin ice with me prior due to years of drama, nagging, and disgusting display of wealth. I believe their demand of money and general assholish behavior drove in law to his death. I love my S.O. but I can’t deal with the drama anymore.

I want to have a family and a future that is drama-free and full of love and don’t want to surround myself with negativity.

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

Seeking advice either from anyone already working for US GOV or any advice on how to get into it. I’m interested in working for IRS or Veterans with pm work. Any advice?

I also want to help my dad get into a permanent GOV role before he needs to retire, he’s been rejected by gov roles and can only work travel roles with fema, I don’t want him traveling as he’s getting too old and I just lost my mom a year ago. Any help would be appreciated!

First boyfriend i’ve had during the holidays and he’s away at home. I’m so bored 🙁😞

Moving to Philly Nov 1, just signed a lease in Queen Village. Coming from LA where I was part of a volleyball group and had a lot of options at the beach. Suggestions on making friends and being active (while still being respectful of covid rules & health of all)? 36 F

People who live with housemates / have a garden. Does it get noisy / do you find people in the garden earlier than (we) finish, that distract you from your work?

Also, living how is living next to a secondary school? Noise / traffic etc?

Thanks

Stopped a fwb situation. But staying away is so hard. 😔

Setting healthy boundaries with family is HARD. Specifically a family that suppresses emotions, gets defensive, won’t talk out conflict, tons of gaslighting.

It’s so hard to stay connected when I’m so misunderstood and disrespected constantly. It’s never huge, but a constant 3-4 out of 10 no matter the day. We never talk about anything.

I’m just so exhausted trying to make it work with them. I don’t have many friends (hey pandemic) and it’s so, so lonely.

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

Anyone ever have success with requesting AA to transfer a spouse’s separate reservation to your reservation so SO can reap elite status benefit (ie, early boarding/seat selection)?

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

Any married people do couples counseling? Did it help?

Do you think it is easier to overcome cheating in a relationship that has or does not have children involved? Listening to an interesting podcast and would love to know peoples take on the topic

My GF and I are dating for 2.5 yrs , She met an office colleague (he has a GF) recently who she initiated a friendship with. I feel that they interact a lot and I'm a little worried of her getting too close to him. A day ago she asked him for lunch and they were out for almost 4-5 hrs. When I expressed how I felt she keeps saying there's nothing going on. I feel that when start to get emotionally close to some other guy than SO then it's not a good sign in relationship. Am I overthinking? contd.

Why is that I always end up alone? Everyone I love, family, friends, romantically, either moves away, breaks up or dies. Am I so unlucky? #ForeverAlone

I dint feel happy when my bf proposed me for marriage.. i am not able to understand why..he is very nice guy, we have been dating for almost 4 years but honestly, in these 4 years, i never had that butterflies feelings with him never ever. Its just that we are comfortable with each other as a person thats it and we started dating.
Whats wrong with me..i am also not sure if i want marry him..

Boyfriend and I have been dating for ~1.5 years and we still only spend weekends together. I want to move in together at the 2 year mark but bf thinks it’s too soon... just feels our relationship is stagnant and not going anywhere. Any thoughts from ppl who’ve gone through similar situations?

Breakup etiquette- we broke up and I was supposed to go to his relatives’s wedding in a couple of weeks. I know the couple, not super well, but have hung out and texted individually as well. Should I let them know I won’t be attending and wish them well or don’t reach out to them?

I’m experiencing insecure attachment style specific to feeling like my puppy loves my SO more than me because I work more and he gets more quality-chill time with her.

Parking at Gurugram office has become a problem big enough to start thinking of another job. It’s so inconvenient to imagine taking public transport in 48 degrees. How can you expect employee to come office and not offer parking or cabs? It’s like employer asking you to work without a laptop.

Would you date an ex army/marine who has actually been through wars (and killed people) and told you that they can hear ringing noises?

I am going way over budget but 1. Even s seniors have admitted some unique circumstances have happened and 2. I’m working like insane hours 3. I’m trying - I can tell by tone management is not happy with me. I’m legit trying the best I can ....

What is the salary range for Consulting Manager in Toronto?

Who has the best M&A Tax Practice ?

I have an interview with IKEA for Azure DE/ Devops role. Kindly share sample questions and experience?

What is Level 8 salary range ? Sadly I am feeling I'm underpaid, if anyone can please share for Pune location it would be helpful.

Work at PwC in Risk Assurance, looking at Deloitte in NYC. Hard to compare cross-market and in different companies, but what’s the salary band for D C/SC in NYC?

Hey Google 🐠, need some feedback on my offer (level + TC). Thanks!

180K Base / 15% Bonus / 180K Equity / 20K sign on
L5 Senior Finance Analyst
5.5 YOE

Check your band for year 2020-21

Partners, what are the financial benefits of retiring as a Partner at PwC or other Big 4s?

Does Deloitte provide cab facility?

Hello

I've been interviewed by @Amazon on 8th July and even after multiple follow up emails, there's no update. Any suggestions?

Anyone else get awful anxiety while hungover? My chest is always super tight the next day after drinking

What is everyone making for the holidays? Need some inspiration for sweet n savory!

If you could, how would you change things to prevent yourself from becoming unemployed?

Does anyone know where I can find any entry level UX research roles? I have many years of academic research experience, but would like to move into an industry role.

What are your favorite restaurants in Melbourne and what makes them awesome? New to the city and excited to try some awesome places to eat.

Looking for some direction here from Melbourne community. My fiancé is moving to NZ for school. To be closer to her, I am exploring opportunities in Melbourne. I am a CPA in Canada with 7 years of experience in corporate finance and FP&A under my belt. Would anyone here to open to sharing some tips that may help me transition easily into Australian culture? Specifically - what’s the best avenue to search for jobs as a foreigner? How do you budget for CoL? Are there green spaces in the city?

Hi everyone. I just graduated from university with bachelor's of Information technology. I was looking for work or internships but I don't know where to start. Everyone asking for experience. Can anyone help me how to start my career? Any advice how can I get started in my field??

Hi everyone, I’ve been trying to land my first product design role and I can’t seem to get my foot in the door. I’ve asked mentors from ADPlist to review my LinkedIn and resume as well as my portfolio and I haven’t had any luck. I graduated from uni in 2020, was bedridden for a whole year which led me to fall behind and I’m embarrassed that I can’t seem to get a job after months of actively trying - I desperately need help as I’m on a Visa that requires me to be employed.
Any advice?

What's the best thing about living in Melbourne?

I've been thinking about making the move to Melbourne from the States for a while now. I'll be heading there for about 2 weeks next month. What are the must-do activities, restaurants, and places to hit while there?

Anyone else here new to Melbs? Looking for suggestions on best spots for food and surf. Is Torquay worth it?

Thinking about taking a position with an aviation company in Melbourne next year. Currently in Orlando Florida.
Would love some feedback/advice from locals regarding such a move. Thanks!

Embracing the challenge of a solol start up 👆