Any expats here face pushback from your family for moving to a different country? They always try to shame me for moving so far away around the holidays...

Parent 🐟 - Anyone has kids who are very very bad with time management and being organized?
Need some help & advice here please.

Grass is Greener on The Other Side Syndrome - Advice Needed

I’m a 24 year old man with a 27 year old gf, have been dating a year and a half and we live together since January (in a house I own alone).

This will sound obnoxious but is the heart of the issue. I am very intelligent and always have been growing up (skipped years in school, currently doing my second part time masters and have been a straight A student my whole life). I am also a very high performer in work with high aspirations…

Is it strange if a husband continually tells their wife that they don’t have anything to talk to them about when the wife tries to engage in conversation. Or him stating that if he has something to say then he will talk.

OT but my SIL is 52 and single (engaged once but broke it off, ultimately never married). She is in the tristate area. I really want to buy her matchmaking services for her upcoming birthday but just saw how crazy expensive the fees are to work with one. Does anyone have any recommendations, or any other ways I can help her? I really want to be able to. Any stories of women here finding love in their 50s? It seems like it's easier to do once you've been married before but im not sure why. TIA

I’m in my second long-term relationship (first was from age 16-20, he broke up with me). My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I feel like it’s time to end things. However, I’ve never ended a long-term relationship and it feels legitimately impossible. Our lives and families are so intertwined and I just don’t know what to do. How did you end your long-term relationship? Advice?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

I’m breaking up with my GF of 3 years today.. going to be a tough one.

Looking for a girl who wants to be a good mom. Now accepting applications.

I hate going to my in laws for thanksgiving….

Nothing against them, it’s my anxiety that always creeps up around the holidays knowing that I have to show up.

Off topic
I'm 25 m from Rajasthan
My CCTC is 12.5 I'm getting an offer of 20 in banglore. But my dad doesn't want me to relocate, he says you should now settle down. Try for govt jobs private job bakwas h, otherwise find a job nearby.
I told him i have no interest in gov jobs to which he said disgustingly " interest nhi h baad m yaad krega " this sentence broke my heart,i dnt want to be disrespectful, but i feel guilty now as if I've let him down
Dnt knw Wht to do now I'm clueless

Has your wife ever been jealous of your career success? Made it through final round interviews at two firms in the same week. Wife has been acting a bit weird since I told her.

Has anyone used Toptal for job hunting? Their process seems time consuming so I want to know if it's worth it. Time is limited in my current season of life. Spouse and I both work and we have 2 littles at home. I'm miserable and have stagnated at my job and need a change.

Anybody here send your kids to charter schools? What’s that experience like? I just heard about them for the first time and am curious as someone who is starting a family soon.

Should I leave my wife for a coworker?

I’m 28 and just moved to San Mateo with my SO. Any suggestions on how to meet new people/get connected in the community?

Hoping this doesn’t turn controversial. Should I be teaching my young kids to read Quran in Arabic (so learn a new language just to read Quran but no value otherwise), or skip Arabic and have them read transliteration (so like Alhamdu lilahi) or third option to just read in English the translation where they will actually understand? I mean, I spend 100 dollars a week on a tutor to teach them Arabic. My parents spent thousands and I can barely read it now and prefer transliteration.thoughts?

I have a pretty passionate hate for those who have “no fault” divorces. These people can’t keep one single promise in their life even when they have the choice of anyone on an entire planet and are not forced one bit into a decision.

How do you get over the fact that your
bf (who is super active on social media
and USED to post you without you
asking) just never does it anymore?
You don't suspect him of cheating or
anything like that, he just doesn't think
to do it anymore. I don't want our
fights to be around social media, and
honestly am embarrassed even typing
out this post, but it’s been on my mind lately.

5th year M&A Associate in NYC. Potentially moving to Sacramento for personal reasons. With all the WFH, does anyone think this will be a career killer/lead to my termination? Know there are some good shops in town, but not familiar with the market and trying to expectation set for myself.

Have any of you discussed complete remote work with your manager?

Hello friends,

My spouse is looking for a change in manual testing.She is looking for work from home (wfh)opportunities. Actually we have a 3.5yr old ,nursery class going kid. I sometimes feel very bad whenever he returns from school and misses his mumma lot.
After marriage and pregnancy, she already had a career gap. If again going to take a gap that might be a career problem.
The solution we are looking for WFH opportunity where she can manage her motherhood loves as well as professional lfy

Hi Guys,

I've heard a lot about Uplers talent. Can you guys please suggest to move on to this place Uplers. Since, they are providing Work from Home culture.

Process flow diagrams... 😁🍷🍷🍷

Bonus for employees on contract too in EY??

How long does it usually takes to get a project in EY. I joined as a React js developer and I have completed two weeks here. Should I be worried for job security here?

I recently changed my last name. When my husband and I got married over 20 years ago we talked about what legacy we would leave it children... Would it be in the form of a company, a brand, or what? We came up with a name that was the second half of my first meme combined with the second half of his first name. We didn't yet know how we were gonna use it... But we had named our legacy. Over the past couple years, as things like 23 and me have become more popular, we started...cont'd

What sorts of SQL questions are typically asked in interview questions for senior data analysis jobs? Like is knowing SQL from freecodecamp enough or should I look into taking a course online?

I’ve unfortunately not gotten the chance to use SQL in my current position so I don’t feel like I have enough experience in it, but have experience in everything else (Python, tableau, storytelling, etc)

I hate banking law (want to do strategy or corporate finance or actual banking) - am I crazy to move from Australia to New York just for the city experience (knowing i won’t enjoy the work and the hours will be tough for me). 2nd year lawyer

What was the lowest you billed for a year and did you get let go?

Does your firm require Pro Bono? If so, how many hours and is it counted towards your billable hours?

Create a fake linked in and put it as active for kpmg

What's the next meme going to the moon? Anyone tracking the next big thing? Someone i know made 3M from shiba inu over the last year..lucky dawg!!

Best board game (or sth similar) for a hangout of size 4?

What are some easy to make, low stress holiday meals for a school holiday staff party? I was "volunteered" by our principal to set it up this year (🙄). I'm making decorated sugar cookies but kind of drawing a blank when it comes to savory dishes. Bonus points if you have any adult holiday themed games or fun drinks to suggest! It's off school property and there will be a bar (thank god), for context.

Any advice for a young engineer trying to land their very first job out of college?

Hi, I am on H1B and partipated in an online survey (a few of them last year). I only get to redeem the points for gift cards (no cash transactions) but once the overall redemption crossed $600 previous year, I was asked for ssn to issue a 1099-MISC form (I did confirm with the company). But now I got a 1099-NEC form (non employee compensation) which I believe should not be getting on h1b as it is considered as self employment. Any ideas on how to deal with this?

Thinking about taking a position with an aviation company in Melbourne next year. Currently in Orlando Florida.
Would love some feedback/advice from locals regarding such a move. Thanks!

Does anyone know where I can find any entry level UX research roles? I have many years of academic research experience, but would like to move into an industry role.

Hi everyone. I just graduated from university with bachelor's of Information technology. I was looking for work or internships but I don't know where to start. Everyone asking for experience. Can anyone help me how to start my career? Any advice how can I get started in my field??

Embracing the challenge of a solol start up 👆

Hi everyone, I’ve been trying to land my first product design role and I can’t seem to get my foot in the door. I’ve asked mentors from ADPlist to review my LinkedIn and resume as well as my portfolio and I haven’t had any luck. I graduated from uni in 2020, was bedridden for a whole year which led me to fall behind and I’m embarrassed that I can’t seem to get a job after months of actively trying - I desperately need help as I’m on a Visa that requires me to be employed.
Any advice?

Looking for some direction here from Melbourne community. My fiancé is moving to NZ for school. To be closer to her, I am exploring opportunities in Melbourne. I am a CPA in Canada with 7 years of experience in corporate finance and FP&A under my belt. Would anyone here to open to sharing some tips that may help me transition easily into Australian culture? Specifically - what’s the best avenue to search for jobs as a foreigner? How do you budget for CoL? Are there green spaces in the city?

I've been thinking about making the move to Melbourne from the States for a while now. I'll be heading there for about 2 weeks next month. What are the must-do activities, restaurants, and places to hit while there?

Anyone else here new to Melbs? Looking for suggestions on best spots for food and surf. Is Torquay worth it?

What are your favorite restaurants in Melbourne and what makes them awesome? New to the city and excited to try some awesome places to eat.