Any worst date stories?

I'll go first, this lady that I matched with asked to meet for a drink/dinner and we met at the place of her choosing. She shows up in PJ's and literally gets drunk in front of me and asks if we can go bar hopping 😂

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Hahaha yours sounds like a SNL skit. Jeeeez.

37F … my most memorable worst dates over the years:

1. He picked the restaurant (pricey farm to table Italian place). He suggested an appetizer and then we ordered an entree and probably had 2-4 drinks each. Planned a second date during the first. After I get home he texts me and tells me I’m a drunk and gold digger because I didn’t offer to pay for half of the meal. Umm, sweetie, if you wanted to split you should have said something. And if you can’t afford it don’t pick that place.

2. Another first date half way through drinks he declared “I can tell this isn’t going to work out because you’re not crazy enough for me. But would you still want to go back to my place and f!$k?!”

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O No.

Omg thats so disrespectful. Jesus.

That’s terrible but I’ve had worse. 😂

Lol how do people think this is okay…

Not a date but tried to decompress & enjoy the sunset by myself in front of a river. A guy comes up to me and I told him I wasn’t interested. He continues on trying flaunt his money and even asked for my hotel when I was getting ready to leave. The peace I was wishing for did not happen…💀

Oh boy!! An evening ruined

She didn’t say much as we were seated for dinner but something was off. Waiter asked if wanted any cocktails and she started sobbing loudly. People gave me a death stare as if I did it to her. Turns out she found on that morning she was pregnant that morning and the father a coworker who was married

Oh man!!! Dude!! What did you do?

I have about 13 worst date stories.

The one the hurt the most: matched with this beautiful woman, checked all the boxes. We talked, texted, facetimed for 3 weeks and when we finally met she was missing an arm. I noticed all the photos she sent was a side profile showing her arm but not the shoulder with the missing one. Now this would’ve been a non issue but we talked for hours and this never came up. We met at Noon and I had a full day date planned and I ended up walking away mid meal due to awkward it was.


The one I should’ve saw coming: first ever online date. Matched and she wanted me to pick her up for brunch. I went to pick her up and the address was a halfway house/treatment center. Looks nothing like her profile. Long story short she propositioned me for favors in exchange for money.

I had the second situation happen as well. But luckily didn't meet her and talked on the phone and video. And could see she's wanting $ for company

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