Can't seem to have a normal conversation with my manager, has been awkward since starting at the new LOB, have always built great relationships with superiors, peers, and customers. Idk what's up! 😥

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I've accepted that I just won't jive with everyone in this world.

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Maybe your new manager is a douche. Ask manager out for tequila shots. That tends to wipe away the bullshit.

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Suggest drinks or coffee?

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Gotta keep trying. Try to get one on one time

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