dating a guy who's making seven times my salary, but he still asked me to split at most of the dates. Not that I want all of his money or what, but I think it's a gesture for him to pay a bit more than me if he's interested in me？？

Any singles here?

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

I gained weight during my last relationship (probably around 30 lbs, and I’m 5’9”). Before my relationship, I felt like I could get any guy. But I’ve been single for 2 years now and it’s been so hard to date. I’m not sure if maybe I’ve lost confidence, but I legitimately don’t know how to get a guy to be interested. Any pointers?

There's a guy on 29who never shuts up. If you are reading this - be quite already

How is dating in Jax? Apps seem to suck. 26M here trying to date or just to make new friends

Best gay dating apps in Boston?

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

Any people looking to date in Atlanta ? 40 F

Question that could belong here or in the Relationships bowl:

How do women prefer to be turned down if the guy they’re pursuing is not interested. I know men have the capacity to deal with rejection poorly, and I’m not suggesting otherwise. But in my anecdotal experience , women take the gentle “no thanks, not interested” poorly.

How do you casually date? Recently moved to a new city I didn’t know anyone in, met 2 girls I like and have gone on a few dates with but not sure I like them enough yet to like commit. Is it wrong to go on dates with both until I figure it out? Not sure what to do, getting into relationships makes me feel trapped and unsure for some reason

What’s the best way to meet people in a new city? I’m lonely anyone up for a chat?

What do young single people do other then date and hang with friends?

What are your favorite places for 1st/2nd/3rd/4th/5th dates in the Bay Area? Please share some date ideas other than restaurants :) thanks!

I was on a tour but where I asked a couple of older women sitting behind me to speak softly as it was 6:30 am in the morning. After that they kept saying loudly that i’m smelling and that i need to use deo and that i should keep my arm down. I confronted them later and they said respect your elders?? I want to ruin their vacation. What else can I do?

Interesting debate with a colleague: which is more personal/intimate: oral sex or intercourse?

I feel like I am very naive and cannot read between the lines, so I can’t tell if someone is trying to fuck me over or not. This leads me to be extremely skeptical of others’ intentions, and makes me less confident that I can influence others, and in general really erodes my self-confidence. Does anyone else feel similarly? If so, how have you dealt with it?

I am feeling naughty since morning! Anyone sharing the feeling?

Any recommendations for nice coffee shops good for a first date?

How common is it for writers to go to the video shoot they co-wrote? If they aren’t invited, and the CDs go instead, is that a leadership perk or an insult?

Any agencies in SF offering summer internships? I’ve seen just a few asking for application submissions, but I feel there’s probably some more that I’m not aware of.

Hey can anyone share their thoughts on some of the smaller shops in the Bay? I'm not really familiar with the scene but want to move out there.

Who is trying to get together for a meet up in NYC? Want to start bring minorities in our industry together.

Can you put spec work in your book?

Do you know what is the worst and heart burning job in this IT world????

Being a HR earning peanuts and giving every Tom ,Dick and Harry 20 plus offer letters .....need to know actual HRs opinion on this ?

LTI or Sears holdings
Which one is good to join
LTI - 33 lpa + 1 joining bonus
Sears- 35 + 1 joining bonus
Stack- GCP data engineer
I have joining on this coming Monday.

Landlord is raising my rent from 2,300 for a 1 bed/ 1 bath to 4,200/ a month; this bowl is more for networking, but if any professionals need a roommate February 1st in Brickell or Downtown, please let me know.

Any reccs for cleaners in philly?

Do you think that older cops use their years of experience as a way to exert their power on younger cops?

What's the best way to find a freelancer? My company needs help with work that would likely involve custom development/Apex. The only person with any SF knowledge is myself and it's limited...

We’ve been attending a church for about 6 months now and trying to decide if it’s our church home. The only reason I’m hesitant is because people don’t seem to engage with us as much as I expected. For example, I told the pastors wife about a serious diagnosis we recently received and she did pray for us on the spot, but no one has reached out to us at all to check in. Am I expecting too much?

Recently started freelancing and working from home and realized that I really need a quality office chair cause my current one is killing my back. Any suggestions below $500 if possible?

Best resources/books on getting personal finance in order?

Hi Fishes,

I have an offer of around 39 LPA + bonus and my wife is holding an offer of 32 LPA in India. Now I have received another offer from a fintech organization in Berlin, Germany who are providing me 69k Euros as base salary + 5k Euros as RSU and also an on call support of 5k Euros annually + complete relocation assistance package. My wife currently doesn't have any offer for Germany and might need to search for a job after reaching there. Is it worth? Need your suggestions please.

What will be the take home salary at HCL Technologies with 23,00,000 CTC (21,70,000 Fixed+ 2,30,000 Variable) considering I invest the entire 1.5 lac for 80(c) and 50k for NPS?
YOE- 8.5 years (NoTech Stack- Consultant role)

Is Intelliswift a good company?

Please comment if someone has an idea

hi fishes I have 10+ experience as operator /technician in coca cola want to skip job any FMCG sector is there any references.

Never thought that there would be so many haters in the workplace - what happened to being happy with your own success AND the success of others on your team.

Anyone here ever been scared by some major differences in materialism with your partner? I’ve been considered “boujee” by some friends but my girlfriend of just over a year is on a whole other level. Lately because of many of her friends getting engaged / married, rings have been mentioned and she’s said pretty much she wouldnt be happy with under 25k.

I come from a very middle class upbringing, and so does she, although she’s influenced by friends dating professional athletes and stuff

These paychecks aren't cutting it. Side hustle ideas?

What random skills do you possess that can help during the pandemic? I'll go first-

I can make soap, beer and mead from home. Im gonna be drunk and clean!

Everyone in my firm try so hard to be politically correct😍feel so included.

Any cat owners experience hot spots? My cat has been getting them 2-3 times a year for 2 years now and I'm worried there's an underlying cause

Bring back Trump’s market.

Advice on dating someone long distance? Kinda big price tag just to see each other.

Looking for a bingeable show that's not too serious. An easy watch type show that's only ~30 minute episodes... Thoughs??!!?

What’s with the stigma against a beer or a glass of wine with lunch? Isn’t really that big of a deal.

I’m excited to marry my SO in a few months but I have severe stage fright and do not like being the center of attention. Any advice on how to reduce the anxiety and just enjoy the day?

Dear Clients,

Stop read-receipting me.

Sincerely,
Annoyed

My 70+ year old dad just got on Facebook and kind of rocking it! He is just on there spreading the positivity. Ha ha

And he only had to create 4 accounts to do it.

Hey- anyone been in the position where their seeing someone, but you’re not dating ? I’m seeing someone and he went on vacation without me and I’m sure he met some girls - he even admitted it but said

Anyway to slim down legs; just want to smooth out this massive imbalance that the body seems to favor to the downside

My gpa fell to a 3.0. I was working multiple jobs in college and had one really bad semester due to a traumatic event I went through. What are the chances the firm revokes my offer during a pandemic?

What % of your free time do you spend at home compared to outside the house? (exclude time spent at work or sleeping)

What internet speed do u pay for to be confident you can work at home properly?

I bought my boyfriend the Valve Index for Christmas. What are some games I should buy him?

There is no more powerful feeling than holding a draw-4 card in uno