Do guys ever feel anything after breaking up with someone or do they just not care and move on?

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Research shows that men feel breakups more acutely than women

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As a guy who broke up with a guy this year, yes guys do feel something from a breakup. My optics are terrible because 5 months later I got courthouse married to someone else (met after breakup). I felt like I went through a lot of the emotions while I was still in my previous relationship. The breakup felt like a relief but I felt terrible because I knew I was destroying the future he had imagined for us, the life we were currently living, and tainting all of the memories we had created together. But the negative emotions I was feeling from that breakup (since even before the breakup) were outweighed by how much better I was feeling after it was over.

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I know, I think it’s insane too

We do care but society tells us we shouldn’t care so we pretend not to

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It hurts inside, even if we dont show it. Im still trying to get over one, its tough

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Of course we do

It took me a long time to date again after I was dumped. Learning to trust someone is difficult.

I don’t care and move on

We feel shit we just choose to not show it.

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