Do men actually like feisty women? Or do you like a more submissive woman? Curious

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

In my opinion one of the worse things you could hear from someone when you are dating is ‘I usually don’t talk to someone like you’. It makes it seem like you are just settling for that person.

Best fun bars in the UES for a date night?

What's your date of Jalsa??

How often do you have sex? How long have you been together? I’m lucky if I get it 1x a week and I’m getting frustrated.

31 F, looking to date seriously and have a true connection, Nj area

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

Who is excited about first gay kiss in an Indian mainstream movie? (Watch trailers of Shubh Mangal Zyada Saavdhan)
SO looking forward to the controversies it’s going to generate!

Is there such a thing as over texting the person you like?

Single black female. Late 30s, no kids. Is it better to practice in a smaller market that’s close to major cities, lots of professional opportunities, but no real single professional scene? OR be in a bigger pond/major city with more professional and networking opportunities, oversaturated with lawyers of color, more competition for professional opportunities, but bigger dating pool?

Haha this is going to sound pretty shallow, but are there any young guys that are on good looking/masculine/dl-ish side looking to chat/snap? 22M here

Has anyone found dating having kids challenging?

Has anyone been to the Zoolights at the Zoo? I have never been, I'm relatively new to the area. Is this a good event for a casual walk around date night?

Men - do you try to get out of an argument/fight by pretending like nothing happened? Why so?

Met a guy thru a mutual friends. Our first date was a day trip together. He couldnt come to a group event this week bc of work but I ended up to his house to hookup after (my idea). He hasnt texted me about meeting up this weekend...do you think i should text him? Getting feelings for him and worried i should back off before getting hurt.

Mid 40sF, recently separated, seeking intelligent convo. For the love of god, do not be dishonest. I don’t even care if you’re married and lonely. I get that. Looking for same age range.

Best restaurant in NOVA for a date? I'll be visiting and want to wow this woman. Thanks!

Curious what people's age ranges for dating are. There's the classic "half your age plus seven" rule, but wondering if that's actually followed.

Please comment below with your age, gender, and range.

How’s the dating scene in Austin? Any advice for a single 30 yr old Male who recently moved here?

Hi Sharks, My wife is in discussion with Capgemini HR for D1 role (PMO Profile). what is the average CTC at this level we should expect and negotiate.

Anyone here a fan of the TLM?

It has been almost 2 weeks since I joined KPMG Global Services, but I have not been assigned any project yet. They are telling again there will be client interviews. What the hell is this? I mean I just cracked the interview to join KGS. And now again why do I need to attend interview? What happens if someone cannot crack client interview?will he not get project and will be asked to leave?

Planning to do a PRM or FRM qual. How useful is it to move from Big 4 Risk and reg consulting to industry? Finding it hard to get anything other than non-PM roles

25M and 5'7 I always thought my looks were like a 3/10 but I signed up for Hinge & Bumble on Thursday. I have 4 chats on Bumble with 6 people liking and 1 on Hinge. I am honestly surprised🥹. Maybe there is hope for me

Has anyone ever said no to a federal clerkship and if so, why?

Hello fishes, One of My friend having 5 yrs experience as plsql developer role.
Skill set : Oracle sql PLSQL unix. CCTC : 9.5. I don’t know whether it’s a decent pay or underpaid. What would be the expected CTC he can ask for next company? Need ur valuable suggestions. Thanks

How much money do you keep in your savings account?

Got an offer from MBB and they want me to start before summer 2021, is it possible to push it to later in the year like after Christmas 2021? I would come in the same level as me previous firm, so pretty much ignoring my past experience, not sure if that matters

Late 90s: Web designer. Early–mid 2000s: Digital designer. Nxt 15 yrs: digital strat & creative (AD). Dropped 15K for General Assembly’s UXDI. Being rejected for basic UX roles bc I have no apps....

Fishes, can someone please let me know that is there shift allowance paid to Jpmc employees? I got shortlisted for ccb lob and my shift timings are 12 pm to 9pm ist. Thanks in advance.

Best fun bars in the UES for a date night?

Can anyone suggest me Which one I should join DXC and BOSCH?
DXC joining is on 26 th July and Bosch I have given date of 27 th July.
Dxc is giving WFH and for Bosch I need to go office.

We need a better a singles bowl

I miss music. Like actual bands with instruments and vocal ability. Feels like the music industry is so hollowed out that multi-member instrumental bands like Fleetwood Mac, The Beatles, and even Metallica are no longer able to take root.

There are a few talented individual singers (Adele) a lot of awful mumble rappers, but no actual bands that will stand the test of time. Before I get called a Boomer, the problems with the music industry for new artists are well documented.

Brought too much pears from Costco. Trying to pimp them out to my family.

25M and 5'7 I always thought my looks were like a 3/10 but I signed up for Hinge & Bumble on Thursday. I have 4 chats on Bumble with 6 people liking and 1 on Hinge. I am honestly surprised🥹. Maybe there is hope for me

We need a better a singles bowl

To all the divorced folks out there...

1) What went wrong in your relationship?
2) What's one piece of advice you'd give to us singletons before jumping into a long term relationship/marriage?

I like to learn from other people's mistakes 😅

Well...I've finally made it in my marriage when we are reading each other's minds.

Preparing for my final round case interview and I’ve realized that whereas prior to the first round I was pretty comfortable with casing, now I’m less and less so since I’m increasingly anxious that I could not come up with the right buckets. I’m also doing more untraditional cases at times which makes me feel like I’m not performing that well. Has anyone experienced similar things? How did you cope with it/What’s your advice? Many thanks in advance since I’m now a ball of stress 😩😩

My family cat that I grew up with got put down yesterday and I have sobbing in between meetings. None of my friends are pet people so they don’t get the sadness. Just saying it somewhere to feel better.

Yikes! Some days, I just can’t stand my job

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

It sucks when you see a photo of a recent ex with someone else. Heart raced for a few mins and felt adrenaline. Guess I really liked her a lot 😔

America is so ugly.

Men marry their second mom.

A toxic co-worker tried to throw me under the bus to cover their mistake in a call with leadership 😢😢. I showed the proof of conversation the next moment without hesitation to everyone. Suddenly their tone changes and tries to divert the topic 😒😒. I am distraught 🙁🙁

I feel some OPs are using people as free therapy in this bowl. Just saying, although I'm happy to be a free therapist.

My career goal isn’t to make it to MBB or a unicorn or FAANG. It’s to feel fulfilled and challenged as I progress. I can’t be the only one that isn’t title or company chasing.

My gf just got a peloton and now she is insufferable. “Peloton” this and “peloton” that. She even said “you can’t sit with me anymore because you don’t have a peloton”. She’s out of control!