Do you ever get shaded by yt women for looking young? I am not sure if it's an age thing or cultural thing. It happens to me a lot around women 35+ esp. 40s-50s (I'm in my 30s but look in my 20s). I dont lead with age as my identifier - maybe that changes with age but I feel like Yt women in particular get really hung up on age and almost passive aggressively shade me for looking younger. I'm like sis, sorry to break it to you but I will have this great skin in my 40s too...We age differently 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Lol I wouldn’t say shaded, but they’re always surprised how old I am

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I’d take it as a compliment and know they’re jealous

Black Girl Magic at its finest. Keep being you sis! ✊🏾

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I'm in my late 20's and keep being told i look 12 by older yt women (I don't look 12) 🙃

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I agree the “12” comment is super condescending

I get shaded by white women for wearing nice clothes for not looking, broke down like they do, for my hair, my lips

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Similar boat, lol.

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It's not so much shade as, this look of complete shock when I say how old my children are. I work where you do and I can see where the stress reflects strongly on some folks' looks around here. LOL

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