Does anyone else work in a no-fun-zone? I have my own office and when I'm not doing something collaborative or client-facing, I like to have music or a tv show on as background noise. This is absolutely not affecting the quality of my work. But one of the partners came in and was clearly irritated by it (even though I turned it off when he came in). Now, he makes sideways comments about my ability to be professional. Ughh.

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Then they wonder why everyone at the office is miserable. As long as you’re not bothering anyone & your work is getting done, it shouldn’t matter what’s going on in your individual office.

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I work from home so I don’t have to deal with that kind of nonsense.

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My old office blocked Spotify.

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Kinda weird to play music on speakers in an office setting. I know a lot of people who listen to music but wear headphones. Same with tv. I know people who have a Netflix show or YouTube streaming as they work but it’s all headphones.

He said it’s in his own office so why would that matter - plus I have seen a lot more no headphone zones than no music lol

No one deserves to feel guilty for what makes them happy or how they work - you should find a new job the market is hot

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