Does anyone have a recommendation on divorce attorneys that *know* the law surrounding the 10-year married law for reservist/military members? Random, I know. But I can’t seem to find a lawyer who can truly define the rules. Thanks In advance!

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Don't go for divorce, pls settle down with mutual understanding. I know since you posted this you might have made up your mind but a last attempt.

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