Every year, I find myself stuck in the same holiday dilemma: taking PTO to spend time with family and friends, or staying at work to wrap up year-end projects. I want to be present for the people I care about, but the pressure to finish strong and set the tone for next year always pulls me back to my desk. Last year, I worked through most of the holidays and felt burned out by January—but I’m still nervous about falling behind if I take the time off. How do you strike a balance between taking PTO and managing year-end responsibilities? Do you have any strategies to make it work without feeling guilty?

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I'm so exhausted by people who think it's ok to not work for 2 weeks just because there is a one-day holiday in there. Y'all need to get it together. Take time off if you want, but realize that responsibilities don't vanish because of a holiday.

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Actually, there are two federal holidays during the two week period. Additionally, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, and the winter solstice all fall during this time as well. Happy Holidays!

It comes down to thinking about why you are working in the first place. The corporation is not your family. And when push comes to shove, we are all just cells on someone else's spreadsheet. If you feel more loyalty to your employer than your family, then neglect your family and tell yourself you're proud to do so. Eventually you'll realize how silly that was.

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Hi! I take time off, but work when needed. For example if I work for a couple hours on my day off, then I leave early on a day I was supposed to work. That way I'm still getting what I need to done, but I'm flexible where I can be with my family when I can!

Take the time off and spend with family. No one else is working.

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