Fathers - how long was your paternity leave when you had your first kid? How did you figure out the "right" amount of time to take off?

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Following. I get 8 weeks total but haven’t determined the best way to use it yet. I don’t think I’ll be able to use many consecutive weeks, if any.

8 weeks, taking it all + 2 additional of PTO - husband, Senior Manager

Taking 2 wks PTO post birth & 12 wks paid parental leave end of year. Take it all. Set the example for others.

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