first day back to work from paternity Monday 9/23, any advice related to transitioning back, setting expectations, travel scheduling and making time for the baby and the spouse.

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I have been traveling tues-thurs and working from home mondays and fridays. Has made a huge difference!

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Take over all baby "operations" while you're home to give your spouse a break. Work when the baby sleeps.

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I second taking it easy when you get back. Set some boundaries and keep to them. When I made it back I got in early and had a hard stop at 5:30. Then took care of any wrap up work after wife and baby went to bed.

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+1 same boat

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Take it easy when you get back, it’ll take 2-3 months to get back in the game mentally, do your best to get on a local project or reduced travel (Mon - Wed).

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thanks everyone for the advice- greatly appreciated

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