Have you ever felt like you are taken advantage of because you are a female boss? Like the male employees don’t take you seriously?

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Yup

Right up until the moment I open my mouth lol

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I like to think i have good leadership skills but i kid u not sometimes i come home and everything in me feels like i went the entire day listening to the little angel on my shoulder and trying to ignore the little devil telling me to punch him in the eye because they are so damn disrespectful. Instead i put a smile on my face shoulder back head held high and like a boss do my job.

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Yes.

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This is the story of many females. Remote work has helped because I’m a relatively petite individual with a high pitch voice. So usually people have to get to know me through my work and only chat with me when needed. But not being taken seriously will always be a thing. In my current role I’m lucky that I found a place that doesn’t make me feel like that but it still happens when I meet people and they find out what I do.

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