Have you ever yelled at a male employee?
If so why.

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I've never yelled at any employee

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No, it’s inappropriate to yell at coworkers or staff

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Yelled, never. It's inappropriate to yell at anyone, ever.

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I don’t yell at employees either, I have truly felt like yelling sometimes, but then I just cut the conversation off.

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I don't yell, I get very stern and my tone changes.

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