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You should leave. The temporary displeasure they’re going to express will subside and you’ll visit when you can. Tell them you need to go back to work in office if that helps you somehow.
Chief
Desi Bowl will give you more targeted advice.
But as much as our parents love to guilt us, we need to shed some of the toxic tendencies of our culture. Live your life and stop letting them live yours.
Chief
E2 Sure. Visa/GC disproportionately impacts Desis.
It’s also a bowl that understands Desi culture and can be better suited for questions like this.
Pro
If family was so important to them, why did they leave India and settle on the opposite end of the world?
I absolutely LOVE my family and very close to them. But need some space to grow into your own being.
And if that isn’t reason enough, Lubbock vs San Diego! Seriously?! Even the Mayor of Lubbock would know the right answer here.
Pro
Get out of Lubbock
Pro
Lubbock is an awful place IMO
Rising Star
Leave, no question
Enthusiast
You have to put yourself first.
You should move out. You need to make your own memories and have your own experiences. You deserve that. You have to walk in your shoes.
Echoing everything that’s already been said. Get the heck out of dodge. You have to live your life. You can always fly them out to visit you.