Hi, but can you please share the coolest elopement/micro-wedding ideas you have ever heard of? Recently got engaged and really not into the whole traditional wedding thing.

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What are you guys into? where do you vacay? Long weekend or elope tied into week-long honeymoon un the same area. Budget?

Well, you do have to eat wherever you are. Might as well add in your gas/commute money into your budget. You time your wedding for when the lease is up? Sounds exciting. You will have to keep us posted on your plans. I have a friend who did a month in India and is now doing 6 month with her BF in Chile. Other than planning a meet up with her parents over Christmas, though, I think they are doing it totally on the fly.

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