Hi everyone I need some help/info on what to do.

So I’m fresh out of university, started working in software sales but I f’d up.

Pay is ok but I got an Amex gold and went crazy on that and my cap one. I’m in 7k debt. For some reason although I’m terrified, I feel like as long as I plan this out, it’s gonna be ok.
Reason being I went stupid on: booze and escorts and had too much fun. What do I do? I’m scared this too much and I can’t pay back and don’t know how I am going to…HELP

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I’d transfer it to a no interest credit card if you can (there are ones with a promotional 0% interest for 12 or 18 months). And then divide the $7K by the 12/18 months and pay that amount off every month. If that monthly amount is impossible with your monthly savings, then pay the absolute max you can. $7K isn’t that much unless you start accruing interest on it.

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Ok

You sound like a good hang

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Please read Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey. You won’t regret it. It’ll be helpful to you for years to come.

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Get a credit line, small loan, divide the payments if you can. The goal is to pay a % of the debt every month with the salary. Hope you had fun.

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Ok thank you

Oh boy

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Booze and escorts 🤣 ☠️

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7k sounds insane but if you stop now this hole is most definitely shallow enough to dig yourself out of with the job you've described. Make a budget, stick to it. Part of the budget should be repaying the debt obv. Can do like what some ppl say and transfer to a 0% interest or call the company and try to work out a repayment plan w them. Deep breaths

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Sometimes Amex has 0% offers with pay over time. Log into the browser and see if you qualify. I’d get that D checked of yours too, that’s scarier than debt. lol

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I wore a condom

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How do you pay escorts with a cc? Asking for a friend…

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IIRC a lot of time the cash advance is a higher rate than other CC debt so watch that and pay it off first.

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Dave Ramsey

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Sounds like a good time. Now that it’s out of your system, buckle down and set up a payment plan, snowball it

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Just needed to bust a nut

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Kill quota

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Freaking over 7k? Geez.

This may be drastic, but if you’re considering a job change, now may be a good time to make the move. Perhaps you can negotiate a decent sign on bonus and knock off a portion or all that debt off.

Also negotiate booze and escorts as perks

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Get a credit line and all in on GME

There are several debt reduction companies to help you dig out of this hole. It’s doable! The fact that you’ve recognized where you’ve messed up is half the battle.
If you don’t want to go the debt company route check out area credit unions for a consolidation loan. Good Luck!!

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