Hi folks,
An off topic question, I'm 28 years old female and currently visa processing is ongoing . My parents are pressuring to get married. Can someone someone suggest me how to handle this mental pressure and how to say no to marriage at this moment as I want to settle down in my career and they are unable to understand? Please help with your valuable inputs.

Hardly any post here has a reply.. maybe the reason we are having visa issues is we are selfish and don’t want to help each other aka karma

Which work-paper is "your baby"

Just lost out on two potential clients because they said they were concerned about how many clients I have. Currently have approx 250 households ( Ed Jones speak for mailing groups). I never thought that was a lot but now I am reevaluating. Curious as to how many relationships you all manage.

With the holidays fast approaching, I can't help but wonder why I've pigeonholed myself into a career path that keeps me away from family at crazy hours and days. I miss birthdays, holidays; you name it. Three years in, I can see why divorce rates are so damned high.

I know this is a different kind of heartbreak, but I just had to make the difficult decision to go no contact with my parents after years of toxic and narcissistic behavior. It’s a weird feeling of immense sadness but also freedom. Can anyone else relate?

Mother and sister are getting cabin fever. Father is being a bit irrational. I'm just going with whatever keeps them calm so I can retreat back to my room and be an introvert in peace. Anyone else?

How practical is living as a single parent in Europe (scotland/Norway)?

Who uses Plickers? Thoughts? Are the kids required to have a computer? What alternatives have you used that don’t use a computer?

How is American Express as a company for Automation Engineers? .. Is the work good? How is the appraisal cycle and hike?
Will it be a good decision to join Amex leaving oracle. The hike they are giving is 30% on base salary.

Anyone have a primer on working with children? From a business affairs perspective?

To the lender counsel that forgot to mention they needed original signature pages for a deal that closed early this year and decided to chase and harass me a day before thanksgiving and a day after thanksgiving multiple times. F*ck you. I don’t know what is driving your lack of courtesy but I have represented the same bank before and know their usual original signature requirement.

Biden’s immigration plan alienates rvat conservatives.

Can H1B employer be changed when person is in india. ?

Filed for H1B extension cap-exempt. Extension got approved. Not stamped yet. Now I am moving to jpmorgan. JPMC ready to send USA after one year if H1B can be utilised. Wanted to know if H1B employer can be changed in india (unstamped visa). ?

Anybody get divorced as a young-ish associate with little kids? I think I'm on that path and really struggling

My GF and I are dating for 2.5 yrs , She met an office colleague (he has a GF) recently who she initiated a friendship with. I feel that they interact a lot and I'm a little worried of her getting too close to him. A day ago she asked him for lunch and they were out for almost 4-5 hrs. When I expressed how I felt she keeps saying there's nothing going on. I feel that when start to get emotionally close to some other guy than SO then it's not a good sign in relationship. Am I overthinking? contd.

Anyone here want to be a friend can ping me..

Are Mastercard, AMEX, Visa - Product based companies??
Also, what would be the best choice for data engineers?

Help needed!

Found some openings in Deloitte (Hyd office) in non tech roles. Would request if someone can help refer me in.

Thanks in Advance.

How long does it takes for you to feel confident on what you are doing at FDD? Essentially I am not trying to stay at FDD forever but want to make sure that I learn all the necessary skills before I go.

Best way to decompress and fight burnout?

So, how many days left before you start the holiday seasons? What are your biggest priorities for the new year?

What's a good balance between types of investments for an average risk person (e.g. % real estate, % stocks/market, %government bonds, etc)?

Question for single female lawyers - on dating profiles, do you state your occupation? Please explain

Our company is considering offering 401K employer match. We are about 200 employees venture backed company. We have about 60% participation mostly the non HCEs and only some key employees contribute. We always pass top heavy test and wpassed the 2019 ADP/ACP test. We are aggressively hiring and project there will be increase in participation, particularly if we offer the match. Given this information would it make sense to continue with a traditional 401k plan or go with safe Harbor plan?

Anyone work in recruiting at Wayfair that could give insight? What is the WLB like, is the broader talent team strong, etc.

Why is it so hard to find a remote HR position? I have my SHRM-SCP, my MBA and over 10 years of experience being an HR Manager.

Hey ya'll do you have any suggestions as to what questions to ask an employer during an interview?

Best way to learn / manage flows. As a functional person???...haven’t wrapped my head around complex flows built by others. And not trailhead

I have a few interviews lined-up and wondering if it’s unprofessional to wear my nose ring on an interview? What are your thoughts?

Joining this group because I sincerely believe a classroom should be full of wonder in all forms. Let's talk.

4th year at a mid size PI firm. Got pulled from litigating MVAs to help this solo we hired start a med Mal/nursing home practice. 1 year in and it looks like I’m two steps backwards in terms of getting paid because we’re a year or more out from a lot of the fees hitting. I respect the solo a lot, he’s a mentor, but I’ve got kids and I gotta get paid. Trying not to burn bridges, but I can’t wait years to get cut in. Advice?

Anybody watching house of lies right now? I don't understand how Marty caused the meltdown with Koll Brothers

If you’re a new transactional third year, and you didn’t catch a mistake that the partner did, but the mid-level, partner and opposite side did not catch it as well, is it still ultimately your fault?

Which Dublin agency is the most well rounded?

How practical is living as a single parent in Europe (scotland/Norway)?

Is Europe still attractive?

Context:
War and its impact on fuel (Winter is coming)
Cost of living
Unstable political situation
Pessimistic future for next 1 year

What will be expected salary in lesban Portugal for devops ,India having 28lpa

How much TCS pay for Germany on-site to C3A Technical Lead?

Is it good to chose Mexico as an onsite opportunity? If yes how much package I can ask for 5year of experience so that I can save some

Hey Fishes.. any idea on Monthly Overseas Allowance (MOA) . Is it part of Fixed salary (net as mentioned in Offer) or and addition to it.

I have a offer 18lpa and my company infosys is giving me onsite in a period of next 6 months and it is in written mail with program manager should i consider it?

I have a valid coe and visa of Japan how to search jobs in Japan from India

Hi ,

This is regarding Visa Appointment for Germany - in VFS.
My visa expiry is June 2023 , whereas my Appointment to consulate is July 2022. I am going to renew my visa now but for my appointment I had given my current passport number and for appointment I need to carry the renewed passport(Which will have new Passport Number) , please help if this will be an issue?? Will I be asked to book a new appointment with renewed Visa and passport number ?? anyone faced similar situation??

I have got Australia 482 Visa sponsorship for Sony through Inch Technologies Inc.
Does this company really process my Visa.
They did not asked me any money for processing visa.
However they are taking time to process the same.
Not sure if this is true company or fake

Hi Fishes,

Looking for Back End Developer opportunities in Seattle, WA.

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Hi, I am looking for an opportunity in Dubai for a Senior Java Developer. Please share if you know about any such opportunity.

How much can I ask for expected salary for devops. In Lisbon Portugal, for 10y experience, India having 28l

What is the saving potential for a H1B on-site offer with ctc around 75k USD per annum

I've got an offer for Hamburg @ 5000 Euro monthly, currently based at 20.5 lpa and married with wife at 10 lpa.
What do you guys think, would it be a wise decision to move to Germany?

Hi I am currently working with TCS and very soon I will be on bench as my current project has expired. Hence, looking for an opportunity outside for better prospects. Please let me know if any.

Hi, Im interested to know the visa process for Australia on-site opportunity. I have been asked for CV before visa initiation. If anybody is aware of the process, could you please help me understanding the steps of visa process in TCS?
Will the visa be initiated by the management or by employee?
Also Project took management approvals for the on-site position when I joined the project, apart from this is there anything additional that’s required that can be time taking process before actual visa?

Please help. What's the best mobile app to track H1B Petition approval status