Hi folks,
An off topic question, I'm 28 years old female and currently visa processing is ongoing . My parents are pressuring to get married. Can someone someone suggest me how to handle this mental pressure and how to say no to marriage at this moment as I want to settle down in my career and they are unable to understand? Please help with your valuable inputs.

I am trying to write a stock letter to send to parents everyday that their child does not come to virtual learning sessions. I have been told by administration that even though I have spoken to parents and know why students are not coming to zoom classes, that we still need to contact them everytime they dont come. For some of my students this is everyday due to parent work schedules and disability issues.
Is anyone else having this trouble? What are you saying to parents to cover yourself?

To the lender counsel that forgot to mention they needed original signature pages for a deal that closed early this year and decided to chase and harass me a day before thanksgiving and a day after thanksgiving multiple times. F*ck you. I don’t know what is driving your lack of courtesy but I have represented the same bank before and know their usual original signature requirement.

Seeking insights & any advice. F🐟 , late 20’s, never married, no kids; in a relationship with a divorced dad of 2, things are getting serious. So much that’s new for me & I’m wondering if anyone has been through something similar & how they navigated taking that serious next step? What things did you discuss (I’m thinking finances, family dynamics, involvement with kids, premarital counseling etc). It’s also an interracial relationship. I mostly worry about his kids, want them to be okay!

My daughter had tears streaming down here eyes this morning as she begged me not to go to work. I'm heartbroken. The weekend can't come soon enough.

Has the overturning of Roe v. Wade significantly impacted anyone's relationships? I lost two friends who were pro-life and on the verge of losing another. Wondering if I'm being too rigid in my perspective or if this is normal in Texas

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

Applied for a spouse visa, anyone have any ideas on how long it’s been typically taking? Website states 3-12 months so wondering if it’s been on the longer end or shorter end in the recent past!

Guys, I interviewed at amex gurgaon 10days ago and was told by VP that I will hear from HR very soon. But when I checked on HR yesterday, she said interviews are still in progress and it will take a week more to finalize.
I want to know do they take this long to close a position? This opening was posted on 30th Sep.. It's already been 1.5 months. This is when they said the position was urgent!! 🙄

Hello, I have 4 years of total experience and expecting offer from Tavisca. Can anyone guide me what ctc I can expect? @JP Morgan Chase

How to FIRE with kids? No kids for us yet but wife and I do FIRE and we’re wondering if it’s even possible with kids. Just takes longer maybe?

I’m loyal to delta, but I’m moving to a city where American is the main hub and Delta has practically no non-stop flights to/from there. It’s time for me to open a new credit card, so I was considering the Citi/American one. Any thoughts?

Any success stories with EB5? Who did you use? How were the investment terms? Been on H1b 9 years now and no end in sight with eb2 wait. Concerned with risk of outright fraud not 500k investment amnt.

My boyfriend is only 6 months older than I am and he is kicking ass at his job. It’s so hard to feel that even though I work 1.5x the hours he does and had to get my CPA and a master’s that he is making way more money/getting more recognition. His company wants to promote him to to manager soon while I feel like I’m licking shit off the floor for a pat on the back. How do I not get jealous???

My SO adds very little to our relationship. She has a dead end job. I cook. I work. I oversee finances. I plan trips. She doesn’t have a voice in the relationship. I’ve asked her to give her perspective but she always defaults to mine bc she thinks I’m smarter/worldly. She feels intimated by me and my social circle. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking for her. Anticipating her wants and needs and then adjusting my behavior to meet them. Which she appreciates but it’s frustrating 29M 27F

At my uncles wedding in Madrid I remember lying down on the grass in the courtyard after their first dance and crying, my Dad came and saw me, laid down in his suit beside me and asked what was wrong.

“I know my boyfriend wouldn’t dance with me like that at our wedding”

And we just lay there as I cried, and then got up. Had a drink.

Said boyfriend left years ago, and now I have a wonderful man who just asked me what type of dance lessons I want for our wedding next year.

Don’t give up.

Interviewing around right now. What comp should I ask for M1 roles? IT Audit, NYC

I’m curious - let’s say you have a role to fill but they are targeting only female candidates to balance out the team. What recruiting strategies can i implement to meet those needs?

How does everyone feel about the online SHRM learning for SHRM-CP and SHRM-SCP for Certification?
Do you skip around? Do you follow the path? Where does one start?

Is anyone hiring? I have sales experience in the telecom industry and real estate. Looking to relocate to the Bay Area. Looking to crush 2021! Thanks in advance.

Excited and nervous... I just accepted a role to be the first HR in a small multi state company. Any suggestions and advice from someone who has done this before?

Hi EYP 🐠. I’m interviewing for a higher-level Director spot in TSE in one of the functional groups. I’ve looked through threads and see pay was recently adjusted, but have not seen data for director level. Can anyone speak to the number of Director levels (e.g. 2 or 3?) and comp ranges? 🙏

(If it matters... MBA, coming from a competing firm)

Any opportunities for Product Management in Pune?

I’m looking to carve out my career in HR. I have 2 years in a dedicated HR Coordinator role (essentially with Generalist duties) and 5+ years in senior level hospitality management. I’m interested in getting my PHR or getting a certificate in data analytics with business/HR focus. Thoughts on next steps?

How do I start moving towards COO role?
Currently HR Generalist with 4 years exp.
Thank you!

I need more of my associates to be like frank from catch me if you can...

Hi all,
What is the Pay band for Senior within the KGS FRM team?
YoE - 3.5years
Background- MBA

Hi Folks,
Lately I was a Product Manager with a startup.. 2 months back I lost my job because the company is closed.

Now my past company CTO is asking me to join his current company as Product Analyst again it's a 4 year old company.

From a PM to a PA role will this affect me in my career.

Please help me with this...

A recruiter friend is looking for a demand planner to help develop an S&OP structure within a company. He asked me if I’d help him identify candidates. New role for expanding business, Hybrid (midtown), Consumer Goods. Let me know if you’re interested!

How do we bring back civil society when community engagement is so low and division so high?

Hi Fishes,
I am looking for a job reference for Software Engineer position in Australia.
Can anyone please help me with the application process ?

I am RTL design engineer at Qualcomm with YOE 3.5 and this AR cycle I'm expecting promotion as Senior design engineer.
For Bangalore location, What market correction I should expect and what should be the base salary after promotion? What is the general hike?

I have offer from qualcomm, offer letter might come in next 2 days.
I have Nvidia interview next week. (Nvidia is dream company for me)

Assuming Nvidia interview takes 2 weeks.
Is it okay if I accept qualcomm offer for nw and reject it later if Nvidia hires me.
Or without accepting qualcomm offer i need to inform same to qualcomm hr
What should I do?

(Ps . My current employer notice period is 60 days and it has not started yet)

#nvidia #qualcomm

Off topic: Business ideas

Can you guys suggest some business ideas for tier3 cities, which do not require high investment?

After keeping my candidature on hold for more than 3 months Accenture is now asking for EAF fillup and documents of current org offer and salary slips without even discussing the job role, designation, project requirement and my expectations. Should I trust them or is it just to collect my current org information. What's their general procedure of releasing offer letter?

Infy versus CTS/Cognizant, where to go for fresher?
My friend has the offer as follows :

CTC : Infy-5LPA CTS-4.5lpa
Internship: Infy- No CTS- Yes
Location: Infy training at Mysore, post that NA
CTS: Pune

Job role:
Infy- Digital specialist engineer
CTS- GenC-Elevate

Do let me know.

Are the days of traveling for consulting over?

Hello Everyone! I'm a student at IIT Dhanbad. I researched a bit about Management consulting and found it interesting. Can anyone suggest me how to start and also some tips to land a job or internship in the same profile considering the fact that I will pass out in 2022

What's the best approach for referrals? Approach employees/recruiters on LinkedIn? Any website/app for it?

What worked best for you, dear fishes?

Any idea about the neal analytics?
How's the WLB?
Yoe 3.5
Data engineer

Hello everyone,

I am currently looking for a job switch in Kolkata for any role in the HR domain. I would be thankful if anyone can provide contacts or refer me. I have almost 2 years of experience as a HCM consultant.

Thanks in advance.

How is the working culture in Adobe for contractors?

Hi all I have a background in telecommunications and spent 6 years working for a telecom company. I now work for completely different organizations supervising coders in the healthcare industry. My designation is project manager.

I need advice on whether I should switch back in the telecom industry or I should learn sas sql coding here and add it to my skill set. And what certifications can I do to secure a better position in telecommunication?

What are some of the best product based companies/ unicorn startups which are hiring Business Analysts and paying well?
Add your inputs. Might turn out a helpful thread!

Hi, Can any pls suggest any companies who hire Data Engineers with 1+ years of experience? 
I am looking for a change and can join in 60 days.

Read somewhere FIS terminated 400 employees from Pune .. is that true?

I need referral in Capgemini.
Can anyone help?

Need help on monthly and quarterly bonus pay in TCS for AST position , any criteria bench etc? Are these paid in full ?

Hi all, my friend joined a company in HR dept less than a month ago. He continued to look for better opportunities and now he received a higher position (with higher pay) in a growing startup (200+ employees).
1. He won't be absconding but in case of not serving the NP, he just won't be receiving his experience letter right?
2. He hasn't informed about this current exp. to new company, will the startup find out through pan card link?
3. What's the scenario like if the new company does find out?