Hi Ladies,
I m 31yrs old female. I wanted to hear thoughts from other folks on my situation.
Around me my friend are getting settled and having kids. I have been married more than 8+ yrs and have gone through multiple fertility treatments including 2 rounds of IVF.
All the physical and mental trama i have gone. It's been a difficult journey. I suffer from thyroid and pcod. Recently I got a onsite opportunity for which I will leaving family . How do i settle my thoughts on not able to kids.

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You can go for onsite opportunity and then try for a family in sometime ..take some time don't rush anything .taking stress will not help so choose what you want more rather than what others are thinking

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What you have in hand is more important than what is uncertain

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I may or may not have kid. How do i process this. And going to onsite means the planof having a family is going to delay more.

Better to adopt a child instead of giving birth to new one

Why don't you go to an orphanage and adopt a child ? You can choose the kid based on gender as well. If you give birth then you can't

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