How common is it for senior partners to be having relationships with associates?

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Just go for it

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Against the rules at my firm. One or the other needs to leave. You don’t remember this is a no-no from your annual sexual harassment training?

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This felt a LOT more common back in the day. I dated a partner at my firm in a different group for several years, never publicly but it was know by many. A friend from law school married a partner at her firm after meeting during the summer program. I think post-me too there’s much less mingling like this (and rightfully so).

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Unheard of at my firm, and should be unheard of at your firm.

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How about people mind their business and let people have consensual relationships. Dating as a lawyer is already difficult.

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…because massive power dynamics mean such a relationship very well could not be consensual and expose the firm to risk of a lawsuit, either from the associate the partner is dating or another associate who rejected that same partner?

If this was two associates, I’d agree to leave them alone. But that wasn’t the hypo.

Plutonic or sexual?

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Elitism at its finest.

Less common than 5/10 years ago.

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How senior are we talking here? Like Anna Nicole Smith?

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Heavily frowned upon, if not outright banned, even if you are not in the same practice group.

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