How do I make my work bestie my IRL bestie???

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Just be their friend IRL..

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Don’t

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Look up directly at the sun and chant the following three times: “I am worthy of their friendship.” Note - this only works if you have a 800+ credit score.

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I started with weekday lunches, then occasional happy hours. I started with - we are always so busy at work, do you want to catch up outside work? We have been friends for 10 years, through kids, it’s been great!

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