How do you all deal with difficult Partners?

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You have to leave the profession completely. There's really no other way of dealing with them without being arrested.

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I just resigned from my position. I'm very sad about it, but needed to.

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@p1, I wanted them to but ultimately just couldn't take it any longer.

I’ve worked for 3 difficult parters over 9 years. I kill them with kindness. I try to go above & beyond their needs & expectations. When I see an opportunity for them to go above & beyond for me, I present it to them. Then I leave after they fail to honor our relationship.

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Well, that’s kind of the issue. I’ve been pleasant , constantly changed the way I do things to her standards. When things are not perfect, I get the rude emails. When a good job is done-absolute crickets. Believe me, I do not expect to be thanked for my work but when every single email or interaction I have with the Partner is them telling me I’m doing something wrong or something they don’t like, it’s hard to not get defensive or see them as negative. Even if everything goes 100% the way she would like it, she would still complain about something 😬

I dealt with a difficult partner for almost 2 years. Then they couldn’t take her complaining anymore so they discharged me. She was discriminating against me hard.


Aw, that sucks I’m sorry.

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