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Hiring for an early stage Venture Capital for Bangalore location.
Candidates meeting below criteria may connect with me at nikitayadav@michaelpage.co.in
1. Candidates with excellent education pedigree (MBA Graduates from 2018/2019/2020 batches only)
2. Non-engineering background preferred
3. 1-2 years of post MBA experience in investment banking (tech focused) or start ups (product/ strategy/ CEO's office roles)
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The job search is so nerve wrecking.
Hi folks,
I was holding an offer from Cognizant and on my LWD itself I got an offer from a product based company. I have decided to go there. I called my recruiter for my offer declination, he mentioned, they'll blacklist me. For what time can they blacklist me? Will they blacklist me forever?
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I just follow the Thanksgiving rule. Generally don't talk politics, religion, etc unless you know ahead that you're in agreement.
Anything less societally controversial is fair game for me though. For example, if senior management wants to do something iffy by customers, or if someone talks about their "friends" to me in an extra negative light. I'll call people out by asking why they think something is good/ok to do. Once I have enough info to not be playing mind-reader, it can become a conversation so I can get a better read on how they think.
Has helped me almost every time. Establishes me as principled but communicable in folks' eyes, while providing myself with info on them. Helps filter who you want to work with on what, how to talk to them, who to make actual friends with and who not to, etc.
In life- I usually just state my opinion and explain why I feel a certain way. I do acknowledge (to myself) that my opinion is controversial and try to understand where the other party is coming from. I’m always open and willing to learning more about a topic which is key to having a good conversation.
At work, i just try to avoid controversial conversations. No telling how people will handle differing opinions about sex, drugs, politics, or religion. I’ve never had a problem with HR and want to keep it that way.