How do you power through the boring stuff??

I thought being a lawyer would be cool, but it’s actually very boring. I only like doing about 20% of my responsibilities in my current role. The other 80% is agonizing. I’m trying my best to power through, but the mental gymnastics and gaslighting myself (that I’ve convinced myself is self-discipline) aren’t working anymore. Any advice?

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You play a pod cast in the background and keep it pushing. Honestly, not much besides remembering it pays your bills. I also try to multitask while working (I.e, walking on the treadmill or biking. )

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Think of other career options. I have learned that I am not built for boring work day in and day out.

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Think of it as a nice break from the hard stuff and listen to a podcast or some music.

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If you are gaining any experience, stay as long as you can. Also, look for another job, if you can.

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