How does everyone meet new people? I'm in my late 40s, I feel too old for the bar scene... or at least I'm too old to do the bar scene too frequently.

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Im at my 30 and i feel the same way, i refuse personally to turn to social media. But it might be a good outlet for you, just make sure to set an age range and watch out for potential catfish. Otherwise im just slowly letting the universe set me into course and try to meet someone just out in the world.

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I relocated at 49 & used the apps to (legitimately) meet new people platonically. Sports, a+c, volunteering at LGBTQ+ orgs, & traveling are other places in which i had success.

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Traveling w LGBTQ+ tours, using apps in destination, going to LGBTQ+ events while in destination. So much of the community revolves around binge drinking, partying/drugs, casual sex … to each their own, but not for me, so gotta find other ways to build meaningful relationships.

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I feel you there OP. I tried alternative apps/sites that were more about meetups in locales than they were for hookups. Although, I need to work on me a bit before I am ready for another LTR.

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I met my partner almost two years ago on a gay cruise and I’m 44. Total happenstance but I’m happy ☺️

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