How imp is someone’s Visa status for you while dating in the US?

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Not important at all. I am a citizen , I don’t care about Visa , or role/title etc . Just compatibility

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What about the folks who are in visa. The girl I met on shaadi keeps asking me about visa /GC status. I feel it’s a bit odd. We barely know each other.

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I don't being the topic up as most Desi's and even citizens here look down on you after that. So irrespective of what people say, if it is discussed it will always be used against you.

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Boss, I told three women I am a citizen and I got a hat trick in getting ghosted. 🤨🧐 Hesitant to talk about visa status anymore with anyone, lol

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But why? What’s the thought process behind it?

It’s important to me cuz I don’t have GC or a proper long term visa, and would prefer to marry someone who can get me one. Call me shallow, but I’m done going through hoops to keep my job and stay here.

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OP,
I have been asked those questions from some women and I just brushed them off.

However, I know where you are coming from!

Not an issue at all. GC holder here.

I’m a citizen but don’t think it matters to anybody

Whom so ever saying our visa status doesn’t matter are either 1. Lying 2. Trying to be modest because it sure hell does feel like that it matters a lot, at least for the online dating/marriage scene.

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