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As a woman, as often as I want. Can go on a date or to a bar just about every night if I wanted to and hook up.
But I rather “get laid” when I have really good chemistry with someone and I feel the person is worth my time and attention. And when I do find that, just about every night we’re together.
Completely agree. Sex is soooo much better when there’s connection and chemistry.
Female, I have a friends with benefits situation that works really well and it’s guaranteed good sex. If I wanted I could go out and go home with someone any night I want, but that’s a gamble because he may be horrible in bed or have a small D. So I stick with the FWB but when I’m looking for something different or feeling like I want romance I hop on the apps for a bit then get off then repeat. I have sex twice a week guaranteed, but sometimes up to 4ish
Hinge
Pro
0 - celibate by choice.
STDs - yeast infections - UTIs - stealthing - nonconsensual sexual acts/abuse - catching feelings for a FWB - risk of pregnancy
None of it is worth it.
If I count my hand, daily 😁
Female here - it varies. Right now I hook up 2-3x/week - sometimes someone new and sometimes someone from the roster. If I find a mvp - ideally every day but without the hassle of actually having to date.
The roster YES!
Conversation Starter
If I want, every night? But can I find attractive guys to do that? Not really. So usually once a month for me.
Rising Star
Guy here - I have 3 regular friends with benefits, plus one girl I'm in early stages of more traditional dating that I'm hooking up with. I get laid about 3-5 times a week. I will acknowledge that this is... not the norm for guys.
Enthusiast
First of all, thank you M1! Someone finally gave a direct answer 🙏🏼 Second, propsssss
Chief
F 🐠 Currently in a relationship, but when I was single and on apps, I had dry spells of 2-3 years. I just didn’t find people I wanted to sleep with. I don’t know if I could have slept with the dudes I went on dates with because I never tried. I also got rejected a few times by men I met in real life, so that made me less likely to try.
We love to see it. Trying to get like you
Every single day if I wanted to. But Im celibate. (F)
Pro
It’s zero
Enthusiast
Read my mind D1, married and the number is dismal
Enthusiast
*cries in ugly male loneliness*
I've found it to be pretty easy (F here). Any time I've unpaused my profile I've had good results. No issues with getting it multiple times a week if I wanted. I've got a special man friend at this point and I'd rather have sex with him than random dudes.
Probably differs by city. LA/NYC vs Cleveland for example
Male: lol
Pro
F🐠… I get laid 2-3 times a week, I like to keep a consistent f*ck buddy. Think the longest dry spell I’ve had was like 3 months.
M🐠: 0
Enthusiast
As often as I want 💅
…which is not that often. Too much work.
So for me “too much work” varies between 1) the initial energy to be social 2) Making sure I’m ready so showered, shaved legs, etc. and then 3) the effort it takes to get a guy to even get me close to finishing when I can do it myself in under 3 min.
And before all the dudes get defensive, go do some research about frequency of female orgasms. You all have been with someone who has faked it. Not saying it’s right but just saying it happens and for a variety of reasons.
Pro
Almost never - don’t put in the effort either
Reading through these comments… it seems every women here can get it whenever they want. Wondering if we have a bowl full of hotties or wo/men now have no standards 🤔
Enthusiast
Haha this M agrees, I’m probs a 2 so anything goes
Depends on how hot u are