I am depressed.. No one to talk to. Fantasizing about death. No i am not going to do it. But the thought of it is pleasing. Anyone wanna talk or just ask me shit? Shitty upbringing, got fired from D, on visa.

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I promise it gets better. Pretty much everyone who gets laid off ended up in a better position after a bit. Hang in there. If this country doesn’t appreciate you, another country will. And it might take a little bit longer but you will succeed all the same.

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🙏 💪
You’re strong for posting this

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If you were able to find a job a deloitte, you should be able to find a job elsewhere. I know the current economy and visa issue will make it harder, but try to be optimistic and see what happens. Worst case, try other countries like in Canada or Europe. US has lost a lot of its advantages.

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Yeah i have all that. Just want to talk.. Friends and family come with judgement. Pros come with too many open ended questions

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I am very sorry to hear that. Do have any friends or family members whom you can talk to?
Also definitely recommend talking to a professional and getting help.

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You are not alone. You should get mad and use that mad energy in a positive way. Remember upbringing shouldn't define your legacy. You make your own path. Think about all the positives you will bring to others. Life is too short. You should never give up trying because you are the only one who will know if you tried hard or put your best effort. Visa issue should not stop you from achieving what you want to. Where there is will, there is always a way. This is America. You can always find a way to get a job.

Sorry to hear that OP. I’m all ears if you want to talk. Feel free to DM me.

pm me!

Sorry to hear u got fired. But its an opportunity for something better. And it likely will be better because of the fact that you worked there at all.

Life can suck sometimes. Feel free to DM if you’d like to talk.

Hey you are strong and will be alright mate! Trust yourself.
This life is full of surprises. Maybe there is some good in what happened. New opportunity must be waiting for you.

Always remember, everything happens for a reason, sometimes it is good, sometimes it is bad.

Sulk for a bit.. lay low for a bit . Watch Netflix.. eat junk have pizza. Listen to angry music.. set a deadline for this.. lest say two weeks... After that you just need to get up, and start getting things done! I have a shitty upbringing too. People like us are strong!

I got fired in india from nestle courtesy a boss who had the knives for me. Without it would never have transitioned to D where it has been a satisfying 3 years.

It will get better OP! My friend is going through a similar situation. Try to stay positive! You are worthy of everything you want in life! This is just a small hiccup in your long journey called “life”. It’s gonna be ok! You will come out of this a stronger person! ❤️🤗

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