I am just so frustrated!! Is it normal for my boss to request a meeting invite every time I need to speak to them about work? She only has 25 min bi weekly meeting. Outside of that they never calls!!! So irritating!

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Yes totally normal, if you want to talk find time on the calendar, why is this strange/upsetting to have to schedule meetings?

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Because they never make time for us. It’s been this way for years. It takes 2 or 3 days to get on the phone for massive issues to be spoken about. Iv never encountered a person not willing to call when they have free time. It’s about making your team feel supported. They block off there calendar excessively so it’s difficult to even find a time. It’s mostly marked as “away”

Unless it’s extremely urgent, is it that big of a deal? People are busy and cant drop everything at a moment’s notice

Paper trail and let them deal with it once they have the chance

They been busy for two years. I never reach out unless I have too. I never bug them, I’m a leader on my team. It’s frustrating because when I do reach out, it’s not something that cant wait. Iv worked with amazing managers in the past, that takes the extra 5 mins to just be supportive. Trying bring three departments together with multiple issues that need to be signed off an addressed with your boss and they can’t even take 5 mins at some point during the day. Trust me the communication is just horrible.

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