I did something important this week. I quit a toxic, misogynistic, noncompliant boss. I know this isn't like a major milestone to post in Fishbowl but I really feel proud to commit to this decision. It has taken me 7 months to finally protect my well-being and professional integrity. The biggest risk I'm taking is not having a job lined up just yet. But my mental health was struggling a lot and the stress took away any of my time to apply for a new job. My resignation letter is in the comment.

This is absolutely MAJOR! It takes courage to write a letter like that and I’m so happy to see you standing up for yourself. ❤️

Congratulations! I hope wherever you land next will value you and appreciate your brilliance!

Have a fabulous weekend now 😍

Wow great letter!!! That took courage to both write and submit publicly! You just opened that door of opportunity for that right fit for you. Congrats and wish you the best on finding your perfect fit!

I am writing to formally resign from my position as __ at__, effective Apr 19, 2024. I have found it increasingly challenging to continue working in an environment that I believe is both toxic and misogynistic.

Throughout my tenure, I have witnessed numerous instances where compliance regulations have been disregarded, professional boundaries have been crossed, and team members have been undervalued, all by the manager. Additionally, the lack of accountability and transparency regarding project deadlines and managerial decisions has further eroded my confidence in the leadership of the organization.

The recent incident regarding the proposed change to my work schedule, followed by a punitive probationary period orchestrated by HR, has played a significant role in solidifying my decision to resign. While I understand the need for operational adjustments, I believe that the proposed change unfairly singles me out, especially considering that each member of the team has varying work schedules. Contrary to suggestions made by management, my work schedule has not adversely affected productivity. Any claims suggesting otherwise are unfounded.

It is clear to me that my concerns regarding the toxic work environment and the managerial incompetence have not been adequately addressed, and I no longer feel valued or respected as an employee.

I want to express my gratitude for the opportunities for growth and development that __ has provided me during my time here. However, I believe it is in the best interest of my well-being and professional integrity to resign. I will be taking the remaining PTO from Apr 17-19, 2024.

I sincerely hope that __ will take steps to address the underlying issues that have led to my decision to resign. I wish the organization success in the future. Thank you for your understanding.

My husband and I had many discussions about my work situation. He fully supports and encourages my final decision. He's been my rock and I'm grateful. I'm blessed to have a supportive husband and a good saving to help me heal from the past toxic job.

Congratulations! That is worth celebrating, regardless of what others may say.

Good for you! Thinking of doing the same, myself!

My husband just got a job offer yesterday with a 50% pay raise. God is so good. I can't think of a better time for this to happen. I'm so emotional right now. Thank you to everyone for reading my post and sharing the tremendous amount of support. I hope that anyone who's struggling with bad circumstances/bosses at work will figure out the most suitable solution. I hope that your mental health will get better and the same as your situation. Now, I'm back to my job search. I'd appreciate any referral or insight for any Analyst/PM/Project Coordinator/Scientist position in any industry. I have 7+ YOE combined in pharma, environment, agriculture, and management. I have a BS in Chemistry and an MBA in Business Analytics and Supply Chain Management. I'm well-versed in collecting, analyzing, and reporting data. I've managed daily laboratory operations as well as coaching and providing helpful resources with any teammates with less tenures. I'm an expert in Microsoft Word/Excel/PowerPoint for data reports and presentations.

I just did that last month! Way to go!

A++

Well done on making that decision! Nothing is more important than our overall wellbeing.
Am holding my fingers crossed for you to find a new amazing job as soon as possible :)

I am proud of you !

Congratulations!

So proud of you. I am an immigrant and I have a very toxic boss who was also an immigrant. Has issues with me taking my parental leave that I am entitled to take. Throws rude comments at me and cuts we me off during meetings. Has pre conceived notions about women returning from maternity leave that they can’t perform at their 100%. I am crying at my desk every hour of the day. I am dumped with work that needs at least 15 hrs of my day everyday. If I quit, I lose my visa. If I stay, I am lose my sanity and need to ignore my newborn baby. I feel so helpless. I can’t report to the HR because guess what? My manager is a woman and the Diversity & Inclusion executive and has access to all the complaints.

Amazing!

Mic drop! Let’s goooooooo!

Congratulations!! Great letter, well done! Cheers to your bright future!

You should sue them! There are good attorneys that won't charge you, they will just take their funds from the settlement

Thank you for taking the initiative! You can only go higher!

Name the company. Or even just the state and industry.