I don't have good relationship with wife, she without telling me along with kid went to her parents, and sms me that now I am free, since than no communication.
Now what steps I should take...

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It's been 3 months, we are communicating through emails,
she has told my relatives anything about me, also told she is ready to come back,
But I have told her she got what she and her brother, parents, sisters wanted, so proposed that now why she has blocked my child, every long weekend and vacations drop him to my place and I will return to hers when school starts,
but she donot agree and thinking that finally I will give up because of child and will bring her back,
But me and my mother we were so fedup with her and her brother, parents etc, they only fight with us and our life was hell,
so my point was when she has taken a decision and all these years they were telling only one thing that they will snatch my child and she will live with them etc. than why she wants to come back and now what happened to their ego, also they want us to come their to take her, so that they can tell people that I was creating trouble to her daughter and she came to. live with us and now see he is sorry and have come to.us to.take her.

But that is not the case, I told her they got what they wanted , now don't block child, also they are approaching our relatives and telling bad about us, but they are not approaching directly us. They want drama so that they will apologise to is secretly and give their daughter back but to other people they will.say we apologise etc.
I just want my child to have best future and both parents time depending on his school.
I don't want to bring her back. these people are jahil,.small towner, I don't have any other affair etc. ,
I suppose this is common problem and might advise me where it will lead to.
Also how to ensure child gets time of both parents.

Now that I have clearly telling her since last three months that now only talk about child travel arrangement, we live in different places. She is only trying to indirectly tell me to bring her back, I ask why now she wants to come back, she says you have to say you will be nice etc. but this is all bullshit, such drama she and her folks were doing all these years, and because of continuing relation or because of small kid I was always agreeing and tolerating them, this time it was too much, she herself ran away that too by making us fool, with kid. And her sister, brother, parents all supporting her. They are now shocked how this time I do not bent and allowed their bullshit, so they are trying last resort, blocking child,
I believe now they will threaten is of case, that is what left...

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