I have been a positive and upbeat employee for four years of shit my bosses have put the department through for their profound insecurity, inefficient leadership, poor project management, hostile and petty personalities, and piss poor communication skills. I finally decided to try to transfer out last fall and every day since has been hell. They are trying to damage me professionally and HR isn’t doing shit. I tried being nice and polite to maintain a professional relationship but now??? Oof.

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