I just got my first real job and will start in a few weeks after graduating. I'm excited, but I'm also dreading telling my parents. I still live at home, and now I'm worried that if they know my salary, it will create weird expectations or obligations I can't handle yet. Has anyone else dealt with this anxiety?

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I don't think you need to tell them your salary do you? My family doesn't know how much I make, because that isn't their business. I honestly wouldn't tell them what you are making.

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Confused as to what you mean by expectations or obligations.

Do you think they will ask you to start contributing to the household? Cuz that would make sense to me. They don’t have to know how much you make but if you are still living at home you could pitch in for grocery money or something similar. Every situation is different but it’s what I did when I started working and was living at home.

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Your parents took care of you and be honest with them.

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Are you trying to move out or are you planning to stay at home? I would think that they would be excited for you, especially since it will give you the opportunity to live on your own!

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