I slept with a coworker and now I don't know how to make it less awkward. It was one of our bar backs and he's really nice, but a bit younger than me and I just don't see it going any farther than hooking up. How can I let him down easily?

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Has he expressed wanting more? If not, saying that ^ makes it more awkward.

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Be direct and hold to it. Something like, “we had fun, but it’s not going to become anything serious.”

If he’s not chasing you or pursuing a relationship, then no need to say anything. Just move on lol

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