I tend to find gay guys in big cities (SF, LA) are less attractive than small towns (like SLC, Denver). Is it just me or everyone?

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Two predominantly white cities... hmm...

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You’re not wrong @A1, that’s a fair statement.

Oddly enough, I’m Latino and hooked up in SLC with another Latino dude though 😂

Definitely random

Girl… yes, it’s just you lol

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What specifically do you find unattractive in us cultured, civilized city folk and what do you find attractive in the flannel-wearing country field mouse?

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I’ve been to Denver once, and the guy who hit on me was literally missing teeth. Just FYI

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I guess you like the „innocent“ small town boy then ;)

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Not just you. I don’t like the overly manicured ‘pretty boy’ look. Older guy next door types, average Joe’s, etc. sign me uppppp

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Jealous, I wish I could get over being attracted to pretty boys

If this is true, I’m moving

I also wouldn’t call SLC and Denver small towns, they are still cities, albeit smaller ones.

Maybe you like more granola-type?

Or maybe you have a thing for men in high altitudes?

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