I used to be looped in on everything, partner emails, client calls, strategy meetings. Lately? Radio silence. No big blow-up, no formal feedback, just slowly getting left off threads and excluded from projects I used to lead. I’m still billing, still showing up, but it feels like I’ve become invisible. Is this what quiet firing looks like in law, or am I just being paranoid?

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You’re definitely not being paranoid. You should start looking for a new job ASAP.

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This kind of slow fade is sadly common. It might be worth checking in with someone you trust to ask where you stand.

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How long has it been radio silence? Sometimes this is just the cadence.

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Step 1: Withhold work/hours
Step 2: Fire for low hours

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My first firm tried to do this, so I just worked for other teams :D but more seriously, this is so common.

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There are ebbs and flows so I wouldn’t panic, but I would take action. Find a way to make yourself noticeable or relevant again. Even just writing an article with someone or showing up to some extra events could help. You want to be top of mind in a good way.

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OP, I've been experiencing the same thing and been wondering I'm paranoid as well! A couple of partners I closely "worked" with (notice the past tense) stated it's nothing like the scenario I am fearing, but of course they wouldnt say otherwise. Reading all these comments kinda validates my gut feeling.

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