My bestie and I (30s F) are looking to meet successful/attractive/normal men. Online dating isn't working so we're going old school. Any suggestions on bars that single men frequent? Or places to meet guys?

Any F 🐠 fish want to grab drinks today? 32/M

Anyone waiting for the 2nd season of indian matchmaking??

Looking to settle a debate between myself and a few friends - at what point is it appropriate to ask someone you’re dating if they’re also dating other people? Relatedly, do you have an obligation to tell whoever you’re dating that you’re dating other people?

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

Where is the best place to watch football on Sundays and meet a single guy in his late 20s to mid 30s?

These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

Married to a man who raised kids as a single dad and did lots of good things. He’s now retired and his hostility is killing me. We had nice ($$$$$) dinner last night and thought maybe we will finally connect. Well on his way to restroom a group was having pic taken in lobby and blocked him. Ruined the night. Angry grouchy jerk. And it’s always directed at me. It’s daily. Very sad and lonely. I bring it up and he belittles me. Traveling limited my exposure and was ok. Now I can’t handle

Do you feel explicitly femme / butch / futch / stud ? I feel like I’m not femme or butch and I’d be more butch personality wise in a relationship but definitely more of a futch / soft butch physically? Getting a better handle on this might make me better able to find the right folks for me, dating wise... I know some people are super strict about their “type”

So I dated a girl last year then things didn’t work out but we remained friends and kept in touch throughout the year (also meet up for coffee, beach day, etc) but nothing ever happened after we called it off. Now she moved to the city where I live and her parents came visiting her. She wanted them to meet me. She was really happy and she wanted to go out for lunch all together again. (Continue below)

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

Is online dating the way to go during this time of social distancing?

Any females for weekend casual meet ?

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

What’s the biggest issue you’ve faced with dating non-lawyers?

Is everyone on a date, I’m still working 🥹

How’s the dating scene in Austin? Any advice for a single 30 yr old Male who recently moved here?

female here...I feel like quarantine is driving me crazy and I’m looking for a distraction. Recently married but I don’t feel that sense of completion...I’ll admit I’ve always been one to stray but now I’m looking for an outside comfort more than ever. But even more so on top of that I think I’m struggling with feelings of being bisexual and never properly exploring it

Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

R single Korean girls less interested in dating single dads compared to white girls?

Has anyone hooked up with a project team member? There’s some weird interactions going on here between me and another. Not sure how to navigate. Also, he’s hot.

Enjoying lobster and 70 degree weather in the Hamptons this weekend. What are you up to?

Hi Fishes,

I got interviewed at infosys two days back.
When can I expect to hear back from them.
Also all the questions that were asked to me were written coding questions(Write block of code) none were verbal.I could write all answers but none was 100% correct.

At last I asked the interviewer about feedback as in where was I wrong. He said at couple of places and he explained me where was I wrong.

Do you all think I will be rejected?

Years of Experience: ~6 Years
Prior Compensation: ~ 30 LPA (FIXED) + 12 LPA( ESOPS) -> ~ 42 LPA

Company: Microsoft India
Title/Level: L-62
Base: 38 Fixed
Signing Bonus: 8(6+2)
Stock bonus: $80k for 4 years
Relocation: Basic + 3 Lac
Bonus: 10-20%
Total comp- 38+6+15 ~ 59 LPA

Company: Oracle
Title/Level: IC3

Base: 43 Fixed
Signing Bonus: 10(5+5)
Stock bonus: 1200 RSU for 4 years
(CTC): Rs. ~66 LPA
more inclined towards Microsoft, but they are offering less
Need suggestions Microsoft Oracle

Help me with likes, can't use DM

Hi All, need your advice!
How often is it okay to switch organizations? I know this is entirely specific to a particular situation /circumstance but just wanted to know, how often should one change companies, without coming into scrutiny for the same?

My situation: after working with an organization for over 7 yrs, I've switched from the next one in 1.5 yrs and about to switch again after completing 1.2 yrs in my current org.

Skill: SAP functional
YoE: 10

Is it would be good path to choose todo MS in datascience from USA. After having the of 5 yrs .plz suggest your valuable advise. Thanks 😊

Kindly let me know ur salary and technology. Post is only for 12 to 15 yrs experience

Mine is 12+ 26LPA

Has anyone switched from being Analytics Manager to Product Manager? How did you do it? How do you like it so far? (If you did the vice versa, do you miss being a PM?)

For anyone who has a consistent exercise routine can you explain if it has helped you manage your ADHD symptoms and all the different ways it has helped?

This post is an alert message for anyone joining the Johnson & Johnson EMEA account for SAP & had Rakesh Sharma for their Manager round.

He is nothing less than a con man & will promise you a lot to make you join the account. After that he will put you in testing projects. If you ask for a release, he will either not release you or release with a very bad rating and influence other project managers to not take you into their projects.

You will be left with no choice other than leaving TCS.

Any update on work from office in TCS? Are they still calling ? As no. of cases are increasing

Hi all,

Looking for an experienced mentor or coach to learn some niche cloud and devops skills..
Could anyone please help in learning?

Your help is much appreciated...
Thanks

Does anyone else feel priced out of the market? The higher your salary, the harder it is to switch jobs

Wipro VS Fujitsu.
Can someone please help me to decide which is a better company to join for growth in the Project Management domain?

Does Perkins Coie pay market salary/bonus? Are both lockstep? Any idea if they’ll hire fully remote?

Hey Guys,

Just got off a call with Counselor. Got Differentiating with Progression to Senior 2
Is there any hike for Progression and how much will be the VPB

SL: Tech Consulting

TIA

Hi Fishes

There's no proper information in the net.
How is the pre-sales and solution career path in service based companies such as wipro tcs techM.
1. How is the growth?
2. Does it require short term travelling?
3. Pros and Cons

Would like to hear your opinion.

Finance guys - Need some insight.

What firm are you at and what are your hours like? I’m mutually exclusive with a guy who’s a VP at a prominent firm. He’s been very low communication lately and says it’s work.

I really don’t have the emotional headspace to be cheated on again 😞 I’m finally dating someone I really like after getting out of a bad relationship a year ago.

Be nice, thanks in advance!!

Any interior designer recs for an unfurnished man’s apartment in Brooklyn? Aiming for an elevated outdoorsman aesthetic.

Came home after a few months away to realize I've been holding onto a shithole apartment. Looking for a broker recommendation because streeteasy is not a great resource if everyone is on it.

If anyone is moving back to the city/looking for a new lease in late July/August 1 and needs a roommate, please DM!

I’ve decided I cannot afford rent in lower Manhattan anymore. Been here for 6 years and make more each year but this is just crazy now. My 2 bed 1 bath went from 5200 to 6800. Bruh that’s just insane

Has anyone gotten movers within the city and had them pack your apartment? What was the cost for packing (for a studio or 1 BR)?

Anyone joined top social clubs (i.e. Zero Bond, Norwood, Metropolitan)? Why were you accepted in & did it meet your expectations?

How is living in the west Harlem area?

Anyone move from Jersey city/NJ to NYC? If your office is based out of nyc, but you’ve been living and wfh in NJ, how much more % do you end up paying in city taxes if you move to nyc? Other pros/ cons/ would you recommend moving in your late 20s?

Looking for a therapist, ideally in person, lower Manhattan and CIGNA. Any recommendations?

Any good laser removal place near ues?

We are having a group dinner at Black Tap on 35th and 6th at 7:00 this Saturday for NYC folks. Come join us and make new friends :)

How much do you typically spend on groceries each week?

If i create a bowl designed to meet, date people would that interest anyone 😭😭

Is there anything inherently sketchy about an apartment with a mandatory lease term of over a year (eg 15 or 18 months)? I assume they just want to lock us down for longer, but committing to a place for that long is a little daunting

Hi! Wanted to tell you about @smarterinasec, an Instagram I recently started. Every day, I do a deep dive on one topic + provide content recs on that topic to read, watch, & listen.

For those of you who use gym pass & go to places like equinox or boutique studios - do you like it / find value in being a gym pass member? Are you tied to only 1 equinox location?

How safe is public transport back from LGA to lower Manhattan late nights (11pm)? Is it worth the $100 difference for Uber/Taxi?

I live in queens and I’m going on a date with someone who lives downtown. Should we meet in midtown? I’m a little nervous to take the train alone at night. Is it unreasonable to ask him to come to queens? I live by a LIRR stop