If you were a new family of 3, with 1 wfh spouse, 1 set of parents visiting you for 6 months, Where would you prefer to buy? & Why?

A. $1.5M 1200sqft luxury apartment with water views, balcony, all modern amenities, proximity to work, restaurants, public transport, parks, day care, school

B.1.5M slightly developing area with bigger space 1600sqft balcony but almost an hour commute a day for work and not close proximity to schools, day care, restaurants, public transport

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A, given proximity to everything especially work/daycare/school. You can always arrange a hotel or something for your parents once in a while if needed but you can’t move work/school.

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Thanks. I couldn’t agree more

Between those 2, go for A. Don't buy a place for parents to visit. Proximity to all that stuff is huge. You may not realize it now, but you'll appreciate it when you're trying to deal with getting to work, daycare, and running errands. And with a WFH spouse, having that stuff near by will be important.

You can always trade up/out later.

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The description is heavily biased. Seems clear you prefer A since you didn’t discuss any reason why B should even be considered.

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Thank you, both of you have a valid point. It is clear convenience outweighs space. But got to find the place we can call home, until then keep looking

Those are your only 2 options? Man...

Wanted to keep it simple ☺️

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