I’m a manager. Straight. My senior (straight) comes to me at the end of happy hour as is like “I can tell you are a beast in bed”. So awkward

Working for a senior who is beyond horrible. She talks to you like you’re stupid and makes it sound like you’re absolutely terrible at what you’re doing. She’s made 5 other associates cry during her 5 year career. Got someone fired and made another person quit. It’s known around the office that she can no longer have a female associate, because she talks down to females more than she does males. I came along and thought I could deal with it but she literally makes me want to not log on tomorrow.

Am I particularly uptight, or is writing meant to be done alone, without a partner talking to you? With past partners, we chat through script notes and then I go off to execute. Current partner likes to sit and chat as I write. To me, writing is crafting a conversation. So I can’t talk to you and simultaneously talk to this audience. Of course I can just say “I’m gonna go write.” But since we’re both CD level, I’m like…is this his first rodeo? Maybe other writers are different though.

How do you handle a passive aggressive boss? Mine seems friendly but screws me over when it comes to giving guidance during difficulties in projects and project resources, he says mean things :(
I am new to the firm and very confused. Please guide me on how to deal with such toxic people.

29M from Kerala, living in Chicago. Looking to find someone local to seriously date. Please DM if you’re interested!

Has anyone had any success doing online dating to find their catholic significant other? I would have loved finding someone in Consulting but just finding someone that is openly catholic has been a challenge.

Hi all, How do you deal with having a good relationship with an ex-colleague, and then that person switches jobs, becomes a hiring manager, is hiring for a position you’re perfect for (experience + credentials) and then you reach out to them saying you’re interested and why it would be a good idea - and then they completely ghost you..I also sent an application via the website and got rejected. I am really always trying to help out old coworkwrs with getting jobs, but this is just frustrating 🥲

Which holds better value a sub with date or without?

Do you think the military industry is sexist? I met more women in the air force than in other companies and none of them is a very high rank

Curious what people's age ranges for dating are. There's the classic "half your age plus seven" rule, but wondering if that's actually followed.

Please comment below with your age, gender, and range.

Desi singles, any plans for thanksgiving weekend ?

I need to talk with a teacher about inappropriate behavior some parents are complaining that she has in the classroom. How do I approach this without accusing her or making her feel ambushed?

Just curious, do people from this bowl still do sexting?

Seriously don't know how to get a boyfriend as an IB analyst, most people who are in a relationship started dating since college. Really don't want to be single when I'm 30•••

My manager scheduled a feedback conversation and I know it's bc I've made some noticeable mistakes lately due to moving too fast, not being able to focus, racing thoughts, etc. I'm seeing a therapist about whether I have ADHD and if so, what tx looks like; we started the intake process which will be continued in my 2nd appointment, which is after the feedback convo meeting. Is it worth telling my mgr something eg I recognize the careless mistakes and I'm in the process of seeing tx to help?

Considering dating apps—any insights?

I have a CD that gets extremely flustered when you ask them for their opinion on a solution. For example after showing them multiple color pallets and CD not quite liking any of them (real Goldie locks moment) i suggested why not we do (fill in three colors here), the CD freezes up and gets annoyed because they don’t want to say yes or no without seeing it in front of them. Working on tight turn arounds and a cd who is too busy for meetings it proving tough with remote working. Any tips?

This partner I like and work for often gave me the most lukewarm review, very bummed

Has anyone successfully moved laterally in an org to escape a bad boss? How did you do it and how did you handle any political ramifications? (cont)

What are Auditors making at start ups/unicorns? Obviously the Software Engineers are the ones making small fortunes, but what about Auditors? Are they granted a good chunk of equity as well?

Why do people accrue prepaid expenses?

Hi fishes,

I newly joined this app, please like me to enable DM. Thanks in advance!

Im not sure whats going wrong. I got a call from Microsoft recruiter , she told me budget is for 14lakhs , im shocked after hearing this as i already have 8.2 YOE into data analytics. I thought big branded companies offer huge hikes

Does any one know what is the salary offered for AVP Middle Office role in Citi Belfast Northern Ireland?

Anyone know of any work from home pharmacy jobs?

What do you guys think on alt L1’s like avax and solana - cost basis was like 80 and 100 on both lmao. Are we done here? Might just stick to eth and btc moving forward, this is too much…

Best windows laptop for b school? Looking for something reliable and fast but won’t break the bank

Anyone with experience getting an ESA (emotional support animal) letter? Please dm me thank you.

Is anyone in any outreach coordinator positions? What is the pay like? I’m seeing $40,000 mark?

Any brand/model recommendations for stylish and functional thermos bottles?

Today is joining day. Nothing happened. Onboarding is said to be virtual but no link was received. Any one else having different experience?

Hi ,

There is a vacancy for application support in Barclay.

I have 3+ year of experience as a Production engineer.

Skill set: Azure, Linux, SQL, Shell scripting, Automation and devops tools(Jenkins).


Can anyone refer me. Please DM me.

Amazon peeps... What base compensation adjustment would you expect after performance reviews?

Hi All, are there any onsite opportunities in siemens healthineers banglore for software developer positions?

Do Marriott Gold Elite no longer have lounge access?

Just started at the firm a month and half ago and snapshots are already happening soon. How important are they? I’ve had pretty low utilization, so I’m kinda nervous as an experienced hire

Don't mean to be rude. Plz tell me if this is rude. But whats your religion? Assuming it's ok to ask since we're all anon. I'm a non-practicing but was born in a Muslim country. Agnostic maybe?🤷🏻‍♂️

Anyone witnessed these protests first hand?

Why do people not respond to calendar invites? Come on now we can do better🙃

Any off beat documentaries to recommend? Just watched the Barkley Marathons.

Any cat owners experience hot spots? My cat has been getting them 2-3 times a year for 2 years now and I'm worried there's an underlying cause

What are some things that help you get through busy season?

Anyway to slim down legs; just want to smooth out this massive imbalance that the body seems to favor to the downside

Praying no one brings up the election in our team meeting today.

For those of you with immediate family members who are at high risk, how are you doing? I find myself being very anxious and stressed about my father getting sick.

My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

Advice on dating someone long distance? Kinda big price tag just to see each other.

Bring back Trump’s market.

Dear Clients,

Stop read-receipting me.

Sincerely,
Annoyed

Do you get your mom's flowers for Valentine's day? My mom is single, so I thought it might be a nice gesture

Graduated college 6 months ago and just been working since. I’ve been living in my city for almost 20 years now and want a different change of scenery. Any advice from people who moved west coast to East coast. I’ve been interested working in Chicago or New York

What internet speed do u pay for to be confident you can work at home properly?

Saw a post about not responding and made me think why do you (guy/girl) ghost. Has it happened to you or have you done it before & why?

My gpa fell to a 3.0. I was working multiple jobs in college and had one really bad semester due to a traumatic event I went through. What are the chances the firm revokes my offer during a pandemic?

Anyone here ever been scared by some major differences in materialism with your partner? I’ve been considered “boujee” by some friends but my girlfriend of just over a year is on a whole other level. Lately because of many of her friends getting engaged / married, rings have been mentioned and she’s said pretty much she wouldnt be happy with under 25k.

I come from a very middle class upbringing, and so does she, although she’s influenced by friends dating professional athletes and stuff