I’m gay but not open in the office. The other night we had happy hour with my team. Soon as my officemate got tipsy, she asked about my recent trip and whether I was with my boyfriend. Lol! Continued.

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From my experience, everyone has been very supportive and normal about it at EY.

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I’m in a small office in the Midwest. Everyone is really supportive and has no issues. They always ask about my wife and invite her to everything

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It will not change anything on my team. If anything, I'd ask why it took so long to feel comfortable enough to do it. (I'm straight btw)

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It takes long for people to come out to colleagues because you are never sure how people will react. Unfortunately many have such ignorant views, including on sexuality, that it’s just not worth bringing it up. The fact that your colleague brought it up is perhaps a good thing, as it was probably her way of telling you that she - and the rest of the team - know and are totally OK with it. Unfortunately that’s not always the case. Sad, but true.

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I was shocked. I don’t know how my team will take it.

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