I'm going through tough face of life alone. Feeling sad for myself. Don't know what to do? Exhausted with Health and Marriage issues.. Regret marrying a wrong guy and wasted 2 yrs thinking things will change.

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I think, You have hit the rock bottom. Now you will rise. More power to you

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This is so positive to hear🙂. I literally became emotional reading it

Go for a vacation. Spend some time with mother nature. That will heal you. Consult a doctor as well. Life is not about marriage it is beyond that try to get that feeling inside you. Nothing is permanent in this world so things will change

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In that case try to read some books. Anything you like or watch good things on TV or mobile

Talk to ur parents

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My parents are supportive in this matter. They are suggesting me to get away from him since I'm the only child they are more concerned but I'm finding difficult to make decision and feel anxious how things will work during divorce and post divorce process

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If possible please seek therapy. And try to build a support system for yourself of caring friends and family. My prayers are with you 🍀

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Thank you for the prayers 🙏 I'm trying my best to get therapy and recover (physical n psychological). The phase is hard

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It's time to move on. After spending 2 yrs if you think he's not worth it, then there's no use in spending even a minute more. Time will heal you. Go ahead and start with the divorce proceedings. It'll be a long process and people will judge you since that's how society works but there's no use in spending time with someone who doesn't value your love. Spend time with your parents, take a Break and travel during your free time. You are bound to meet someone who will be perfect for you. And when going through tough times like these, spend time with some of your closest friends. It'll help you a lot more than you would know. Just do not spend too much time alone. All the best

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Divorce is very big word for me and I get anxious thinking about it. I'm finding it difficult to accept that there is no solution to it

Did you get married due to peer pressure?

No.. it was an arrange marriage

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