I’m shocked at how much it cost me to fill my gas tank on my way to the office this morning. I can
imagine it’s only going to get worse as things between Russia and Ukraine keep escalating. It’s
enough to make me want to reconsider sharing a tiny at home office with my wife!

Last night I slept over my boyfriend’s apt. We are sexually active together but this time he woke up at 4/5am and started fingering me and eating me out. I was somewhat awake but I don’t know how to feel about this. Thoughts?

Bored as heck in my relationship. We barley talk. Don’t do anything together, just watch TV every night and on weekends…. What do you do with ur partner? Do y’all even have anything to talk about? I hope this isn’t how a long term relationship is supposed to be I cannot spend another 50 years doing this

Anybody here a single mother by choice? Would love to chat.

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

I am 34/f pakistani widow with kids...why are desi guys scared of marrying widows and women with kids?

I want to dispose my office chair and i live in Newton. Anyone knows if i can leave it curbside or where i can check for the details?

Is there any one time home office setup allowance still provided for recent new joiners?

How to handle the dual employment in BGV? I have a friend who have a overlap of 30-40 days from his last organization which is not disclosed in CV and with current organization. I feel UAN check will spoil it but his overlap is cuz he wasn't able to return assets back during COVID. Any suggestions?

it’s been 3 years in this city and I really need to hang out with someone other than my boyfriend. But I’m terrible at “networking"

Female 🐠 - if your husband has mostly non-muslim friends, is that a problem?

1099 or w-2 ? I have been given the option though the company prefers w-2. It’s a day rate booking couple of months or more (no end date). I already have 1099 from similar company this year and am leaning towards 1099, but I don’t want to be difficult. I do take home office deduction and they are not supplying any equipment. Suggestions?

If taking the subway to my home office isn't part of my normal commute, and the client I am on is outside the commute to my home office and requires it, am I entitled to expense my Metro Card?

Joining Deloitte in 2weeks. What Deloitte send laptop, do they send extra monitor, keyboard and mouse? Or does it need to be purchased using $1000 productivity subsidy? And do we need to use Amex card to purchase and then reimburse?

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

Do you consider your in-laws family? For example, if your spouse’s sibling has children, do you consider those kids as your family or your spouse’s family?

What are some myths you all have heard to figure out if you’re having a boy or girl?

How personal is too personal for a SOP. I want to talk about how my aunts postpartum depression and consequent suicide shaped my career aspirations. Is that too personal/ would that be inappropriate to share?

I live in VA, been married for 6 years and have no kids. My spouse and I are just separated and about to get divorced in a month. My spouse left their job a year after we married due to which, I need.

Wow! I guess wasn't paying enough attention to the renting crisis as I should have been. I have been trying to help my daughter find her first apartment and I'm not sure she's going to be able to go anywhere any time soon!

I may need a freelance senior (ish) AD to partner with for the month of January, in house at a start up. Post your books!

Partners - Do you ever take vacations?

I have been at my current firm for about 1.5 years, and in that entire time the partner in my group hasn't been out of the office a single time. Is that normal? I can't tell if it's standard for big law partners to not take time off, if the dynamics for my group may be different (only 1 partner in the entire group), or it the partner I work with is just a masochist.

My therapist just told me I'm depressed..do you ever feel like they tell you things you hear a lot or could have figured out on your own? Like take care of yourself, it's ok to feel such and such, etc. I'm still newer to therapy so wondering if that's the common experience? Do you ever have moments where you're like wow that actually is eye opening and I wouldn't have gotten that from reading self help books and websites etc?

Someone looking for a Senior Strat Director / GSD ? Looking to relocate

Hi,

What is the diff bw Deloitte USI and Deloitte India are they completely diff or we can expect same benefits and work culture from both?
TIA

Hi everyone! I’m an ACD/Art with 12 years of experience. Currently looking for my next gig in New York. Unfortunately, most of the times I apply for a job, I’m somehow “overqualified” 😳 (cont)

How to deal with people flirting with you at work.
I’m married, and one of my coworkers flirts with me. Nothing super overt, but definitely not professional. We’re good friends and work together constantly because we’re on the same client, so I don’t want to make it awkward. Do I just do nothing and let it go? It is mostly just odd I’m not super offended, but I’m also clearly uninterested!

Any requirement for 16 + yoe in testing following is skillset
Java , JavaScript/Node Js , AWS Services , Cypress IO , selenium , QTP , Soap ui , Jmeter , Gatling IO , Jenkins and so on ..
Testing and Automating UI , API ( SOAP AND REST) , Micro Frontends and Microservices ..
Experience with leading , hiring , training , reviewing , designing automation frameworks.

Hi. One of my friend got an offer from hexaware for Siam role. how about job security and increment.

Whats your go to platform?

When is woocommerce a good option?

Hello folks,
Do you have any best practise in social selling campaigns for a luxury skincare brand?

My client is looking for someone to lead their DTC Strategy focusing on innovation, NPD, end-to-end fulfillment, etc. This person will act as an internal consultant owning DTC & Alternative Channels.

They allow remote work in CA, NJ, CT, TX, MD, UT, AZ, WI, and more.

Must have a mixture of entrepreneurial and corporate experience. Must be “polished” as this person will be responsible for getting the buy-in of upper management. DTC exp preferred, eComm exp okay.

DM me if interested.

Is there any end/expiration date for DSARs? How are DSARs reconciled with record retention and deletion requirements?

Right-wing Republican moving family from deep blue progressive city. Looking for excellent schools, low property taxes. reasonable housing prices, and a high percentage of Republican voters. Any suburb recommendations?

I got an offer at Nokia, and my new manager said that she wanted to put me in the higher salary bracket however the HR insisted that we lowered the range. That caused me to receive a much lower salary than expected. Should I renegotiate even when my manager said that she tried giving me more. Does HR really play that big of a role in this?

What is the value in professional certifications? ACCA, CFA, CIPD, etc.

Girls in asset management PUT OUT. Haven't gotten a handie like that in years.

How long do you typically have to study for the below series exams?
7
66
55
3

Tip for anyone taking the CAIA exam, get UpperMark. Was using willey and was abt 1/2 complete and borrowed a friends test bank … night and day much harder and honestly was more like what I expected

Compared to FRM, CFA is tough because it requires an enormous commitment to complete all three levels

Anyone else feel cautious about the JP wellness screening? Is this something they can use for drug testing? Even still it is weird giving my blood to my employer

Hi all, I have a question regarding retirement accounts. I am not sure if I should choose a Roth or 401k (company has 4+2% match). Currently 23, base salary is ~100k and investments have brought 45k this year which has me teetering between a 22-24% tax bracket. Wondering what the usual tax bracket is of people retired (around 65yo) as I’m not sure anything would bring in significant income with the exception of investments. In my case would a Roth make sense? Appreciate any answers!!

Anyone moved from NY to D.C.? Would like to hear your thoughts on comparing the two cities. Am considering move to DC because my gf got a better job there but not sure what to expect

MM PE vs MF PE - which would you (do you) prefer and why?

Folks on an H1B, how do you file your taxes?

Tips with dealing with imposter syndrome as a minority in finance?

Any insight on CAIA? Difficulty and whether it impacts salary?

First time posting on here… what do you like best about this app/what’s the best way to use this app to get its benefits? 🤔

When people at a bar ask me what I do, I tell them I'm a special agent. It's easier than describing this job

I always forget how stupid the average American is until I travel and am surrounded by them at the airport 🙄

Best gadgets, accesorios, etc. for traveling? What are the things you always take with you when you travel?

Has anyone else turned down a tech job for banking? It was a hard decision but ultimately, I decided that the experience and training I'll get here is second to none. Hope I don't regret this decision

We have a big project going on and I am the only point person(initiate it, did lot of work, and knows the deets well), seems like my mgr wants to get a headcount. But I want to use this opportunity to get promoted, how can I get this across? Mgr is new(they fired my old mgr), mgr’s mgr is new too(re-org). So not sure if I should/can make a case, or how.

Is there anything legitimate that one can do to prevent hair loss?