I’m staying with my dad right now and am going through a funk at work. I just really hate work right now and am actively looking to get out. But then he says, I have a bad vibe about me at the end of the workday. Like, I KNOW!!! Anyone going through something similar? I know better than anyone and that’s why I’m trying to get out. Ok end of rant thanks for listening

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similar wrt my last gig. came home each day just miserable, drank anywhere from 4 to 10 drinks each night just to try to carve out 2 hours per day that weren't miserable... wife felt terrible for me and ultimately my vibe would affect hers. it was when it started bringing her down that i got my shit together to get out of there. been quite happy at zs making 50% more $ even though hours are worse. other jobs will better suit you, friend - keep truckin.

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Yes, this has been a unique opportunity to spend time with our parents but unfortunately they don’t necessarily understand us or provide the empathy that we need from them, although they mean well. Maybe projecting my experience to you but struggling with this as well.

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I don’t hate my job, but I have noticed I am a much better person on the days/weeks I do cardio exercise first thing in the morning. Worth a shot

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