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When 7yo son is playing a game on one of our phone's, he is totally engrossed in it like he is possessed.
I think what we as parents can do is tweak the environment for them (gardener vs carpenter). We can give them other options and encourage them. Not just "get off the stupid phone and go do something else" but... "Hey kiddo. Want to go have a catch?" or even a challenge. I've been working on this really strong spiral. I wonder if you can catch it.
I think from a physiological perspective kids crave phones, game, YouTube etc bc they give dopamine etc for very little cost. You just sit and tap away and stare at screen. Especially with how the apps are designed (nudges, rewards, notifications, unlimited lives, auto play algorithms)
Let's give them other means of dopamine and things that get them excited and happy. Physical activity (sports, hiking), creativity (building legos... We made cardboard swords and shields and battled all last weekend).
The social and interactiveness will draw them in. Also they mirror us, so set good examples and don't be on our phones, laptops, and tvs all day either.
I dont think we should get away from screens and don't think it's going away but we need to provide an environment with balance.
Like if you only stock junk food in fridge... What else do you expect them to eat. Let's stock "our fridges" with a balanced variety.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/ericmack/2019/10/22/oxford-study-challenges-what-youve-been-told-about-screen-time-and-kids-for-years/amp/
Agreed. That said, I think the focused, task based screen time is far less dangerous than the headphones on, constant pinging through different content YouTube'ing I see far too often in social settings.
don't even get me started on screens..I feel like I have lost that battle..The pandemic just exacerbated this issue, and I am at my wits end 😭😭😭
Taking my kid to therapist because of anxiety and fear type issues. She was on screen from morning to night except school time. There are many other issues this new generation will be facing.
It’s almost like all they do in primary school is screen time except PE. They use apps for maths, apps for phonics, watch YouTube videos for rhymes and then some more videos. They are then encouraged to use some of the same apps for homework. It’s made teachers’s life easy, parents life easy, the content seems to be more creative and challenging. So you just can’t seem to decouple learning from screen anymore. But I think there could be less screen time at school for secondary education!?